tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17345096600770914322017-06-03T19:50:00.243-07:00Women LoveAll about Women (and men too) in seeking their true love and keeping marriageAndraldri Hillonhttps://plus.google.com/105764401250488003798noreply@blogger.comBlogger215125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1734509660077091432.post-20144844823600700512012-07-16T19:36:00.000-07:002012-07-16T19:38:11.294-07:00Why People Cheat In Relationships?<i>This article is brought to you by Women Love</i><br /><br /><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">You might have caught your partner red-handed, or perhaps you merely suspect it.<o:p></o:p></span><br /><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Even if not, it makes sense, with the proliferation of cyber-sex and affairs among both men and women, that it will cross your mind to wonder what drives a spouse to cheat in the first place?<o:p></o:p></span><br /><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Maybe nothing. That is, nothing that you’ve done wrong. Sometimes things really do ‘just happen’.<o:p></o:p></span><br /><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">We are all, in the end, biological creatures with physical needs and weaknesses.<o:p></o:p></span><br /><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">In the midst of the heat of an unexpectedly delicious moment at the office party with that guy you’ve had a little crush on, or that reassuring hug you gave to the sexy neighbor when her cat got run over, things felt just a little too good.<o:p></o:p></span><br /><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Like the first bite of a succulent steak, you can’t help craving it, if even just for a moment. Unfortunately sometimes that means you go where you shouldn’t and before you know it, you’ve crossed the line.<o:p></o:p></span><br /><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">If it’s really that innocent, your relationship can probably survive using disclosure, apology and conscious intent.<o:p></o:p></span><br /><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">BUT<o:p></o:p></span><br /><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">But what if the indiscretion is ongoing? What if your spouse can’t or won’t stop seeing the ‘other’, or even seems to ‘get off’ ongoing behind your back?<o:p></o:p></span><br /><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">That’s the problem.<o:p></o:p></span><br /><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">People often cheat because it just plain feels good.<o:p></o:p></span><br /><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">However, a solid friendship, trusting relationship and the security and partnership of marriage feels good, too, so why do so many people risk all that for a roll in the hay or a fling?<o:p></o:p></span><br /><b><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Here are some reasons why people cheat on their partners:</span></b><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><o:p></o:p></span><br /><div style="margin-left: 36.0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt;"> </span></span><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">You fight too often<o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="margin-left: 36.0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt;"> </span></span><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Your sexual compatibility has eroded and your mate isn’t satisfied<o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="margin-left: 36.0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt;"> </span></span><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Gradual erosion of trust<o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="margin-left: 36.0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt;"> </span></span><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Over-familiarity (boredom)<o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="margin-left: 36.0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt;"> </span></span><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Experimentation (Maybe she doesn’t think you’d approve of the fantasy she’s dying to live out in bed – so she tries it with someone who she feels won’t judge her)<o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="margin-left: 36.0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt;"> </span></span><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">You’ve been too busy for intimacy<o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="margin-left: 36.0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt;"> </span></span><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Your mate is no longer attracted to you that way (have you let yourself go? Be honest. You have limits too when it comes to physical appearance, hygiene, etc)<o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="margin-left: 36.0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt;"> </span></span><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Has petty bickering and nagging drained all the joy, humor and affection from our relationship?<o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="margin-left: 36.0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt;"> </span></span><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">There is a grudge there that needs to be addressed<o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="margin-left: 36.0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt;"> </span></span><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">She feels taken for granted<o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="margin-left: 36.0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt;"> </span></span><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">He feels unappreciated<br />• There’s a basic incompatibility in your relationship<o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="margin-left: 36.0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt;"> </span></span><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">She feels like she’s getting old and less pretty and wants to feel young and desirable again<o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="margin-left: 36.0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt;"> </span></span><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">He feels older and less manly and wants to feel that testosterone rush again to make him feel good about himself<o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="margin-left: 36.0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt;"> </span></span><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">He’s just a chronic adulterer<o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="margin-left: 36.0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt;"> </span></span><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">She doesn’t have the relationship skills to maintain or work through a long-term relationship<o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="margin-left: 36.0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt;"> </span></span><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">He has deep sexual kinks (bi curious, S&M etc) that he feels are inappropriate to live out with his wife<o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="margin-left: 36.0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt;"> </span></span><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">She needs to feel the power and flush of strong romantic love again. She needs that reassurance and sense of being cherished and adored.<o:p></o:p></span></div><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Can your marriage recover from an affair? Yes, it’s possible, even if your spouse has feelings for the object of her obsession.<o:p></o:p></span><br /><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">But be aware that it won’t be simple or quick. Both of you will have to work hard and probably involve a therapist to help guide you.<o:p></o:p></span><br /><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">But it is possible.<o:p></o:p></span><br /><div style="background: ; line-height: 14.8pt; margin-bottom: 18.85pt; margin-left: 0cm; margin-right: 0cm; margin-top: 0cm;"><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Find out is your spouse cheating, <b><a href="http://andraldri.bachp.hop.clickbank.net/">here</a> <o:p></o:p></b></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://andraldri.bachp.hop.clickbank.net/" target="_blank"><img border="0" height="49" src="http://bustacheatingpartner.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/728x90.jpg" width="400" /></a></div><div style="background: ; line-height: 14.8pt; margin-bottom: 18.85pt; margin-left: 0cm; margin-right: 0cm; margin-top: 0cm;"><i style="background-color: ; line-height: 14.8pt;"><br /></i></div><div style="background: ; line-height: 14.8pt; margin-bottom: 18.85pt; margin-left: 0cm; margin-right: 0cm; margin-top: 0cm;"><i style="background-color: ; line-height: 14.8pt;">This article is brought to you by Women Love</i></div>Andraldri Hillonhttps://plus.google.com/105764401250488003798noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1734509660077091432.post-49343472892698521652012-07-16T17:37:00.003-07:002012-07-16T17:43:42.115-07:00Frequent Business Trips - Is Your Partner Cheating?<div style="text-align: left;"><i>This article is brought to you by Women Love</i></div><div style="text-align: left;"><i><br /></i></div><br /><div style="line-height: 14.8pt; margin-bottom: 18.85pt; margin-left: 0cm; margin-right: 0cm; margin-top: 0cm;"><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 9.5pt;">Where does my insecurity end . . . and her infidelity begin?<o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; line-height: 14.8pt; margin: 0cm 0cm 18.85pt;"><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 9.5pt;">“She used to love it when I drove her to the airport, but lately she seems perfectly happy and excited to head out of town on her own, renting a cab and hauling all her own luggage.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; line-height: 14.8pt; margin: 0cm 0cm 18.85pt;"><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 9.5pt;">Why would her beautiful eyes have that happy sparkle in them when she’s leaving without me?”<o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; line-height: 14.8pt; margin: 0cm 0cm 18.85pt;"><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 9.5pt;">“Usually my husband and I took advantage of his company’s out of town assignments to share some travel time together.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; line-height: 14.8pt; margin: 0cm 0cm 18.85pt;"><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 9.5pt;">What could be sweeter or more thrilling than sleeping in a strange hotel room together and renewing the spark?<o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; line-height: 14.8pt; margin: 0cm 0cm 18.85pt;"><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 9.5pt;">But the last two trips he seemed distracted and gave excuses as to why I couldn’t go this time . . . and even though they made intellectual sense, my intuition just KNEW there was a lot he wasn’t telling me.”<o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; line-height: 14.8pt; margin: 0cm 0cm 18.85pt;"><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 9.5pt;">Does any of this feel familiar to you?<o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; line-height: 14.8pt; margin: 0cm 0cm 18.85pt;"><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 9.5pt;">It can leave us feeling very insecure and hurt when we sense our loved one is rejecting us, especially when the possibility of another man or woman enters the equation.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; line-height: 14.8pt; margin: 0cm 0cm 18.85pt;"><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 9.5pt;">But how can we find out, once and for all, if he or she really is cheating, or if it’s all perfectly innocent – and, do we even really want to know the truth?<o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; line-height: 14.8pt; margin: 0cm 0cm 0.0001pt;"><strong><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 9.5pt;">Some signs of a cheating spouse</span></strong><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 9.5pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; line-height: 14.8pt; margin: 0cm 0cm 0.0001pt 1cm; text-indent: -10.35pt;"><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 9.5pt;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 9.5pt;">Evasiveness when you question him about his plans<o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; line-height: 14.8pt; margin: 0cm 0cm 0.0001pt 1cm; text-indent: -10.35pt;"><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 9.5pt;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 9.5pt;">Business/travel receipts that don’t add up<o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; line-height: 14.8pt; margin: 0cm 0cm 0.0001pt 1cm; text-indent: -10.35pt;"><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 9.5pt;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 9.5pt;">Change in her usual behavior – more sex/no sex, reluctance to talk/ talking too much, etc.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; line-height: 14.8pt; margin: 0cm 0cm 0.0001pt 1cm; text-indent: -10.35pt;"><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 9.5pt;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 9.5pt;">Protective of luggage/briefcase/cell phone etc. – Doesn’t want you looking through them<o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; line-height: 14.8pt; margin: 0cm 0cm 0.0001pt 1cm; text-indent: -10.35pt;"><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 9.5pt;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 9.5pt;">Travelling more frequently/delays returning<o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; line-height: 14.8pt; margin: 0cm 0cm 0.0001pt 1cm; text-indent: -10.35pt;"><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 9.5pt;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 9.5pt;">Nervous/defensive or eager body language as trip time approaches<o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; line-height: 14.8pt; margin: 12pt 0cm 18.85pt;"><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 9.5pt;">Add these to the general signs of cheating such as; emotional distance, withdrawal of physical affection, suspicious phone activity, suspicious credit card charges, secrecy, picking fights, unexplained new interest in appearance or new hobbies — the list goes on and on but you get the idea.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; line-height: 14.8pt; margin: 0cm 0cm 18.85pt;"><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 9.5pt;">The sad fact is that you can check off all the lists and take all the quizzes, but what it really comes down to is this; if one partner suspects the other of infidelity, they’re usually right.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; line-height: 14.8pt; margin: 0cm 0cm 0.0001pt;"><strong><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 9.5pt;">Does that mean the end of your relationship?</span></strong><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 9.5pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; line-height: 14.8pt; margin: 0cm 0cm 18.85pt;"><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 9.5pt;">Not necessarily.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; line-height: 14.8pt; margin: 0cm 0cm 18.85pt;"><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 9.5pt;">You’re hurting deeply right now, emotions are high and you feel that fight-or-flight-response, but don’t start acting/reacting just for the sake of motion.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; line-height: 14.8pt; margin: 0cm 0cm 18.85pt;"><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 9.5pt;">Some marriages manage to recover from affairs. It all depends on what both parties end up wanting, so it’s worth thinking beyond your knee-jerk reaction.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; line-height: 14.8pt; margin: 0cm 0cm 18.85pt;"><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 9.5pt;">There are all sorts of options available to you if you decide to pursue them to try to catch your cheating spouse, including hiring a private investigator.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; line-height: 14.8pt; margin: 0cm 0cm 18.85pt;"><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 9.5pt;">Before you jump into anything like that though – even before trying to ‘set her up’ to catch her yourself – take a little time to seriously consider your options in EVERY eventuality.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; line-height: 14.8pt; margin: 0cm 0cm 18.85pt;"><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 9.5pt;">That is, IF she’s innocent, IF he’s guilty, and if so, what do you really want to do about it?<o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; line-height: 14.8pt; margin: 0cm 0cm 18.85pt;"><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 9.5pt;">Most self-help columns and even many of your friends would encourage you to find out, take action, confront, gather evidence for a divorce, leave him, sue her . . . in other words, ‘fix’ or end the relationship.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; line-height: 14.8pt; margin: 0cm 0cm 18.85pt;"><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 9.5pt;">Know, however, that there are untold millions of people who decide — either actively or passively – to endure a cheating spouse because it’s more important to them to keep the man or woman they love, maintain the lifestyle, protect the children or ; background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; line-height: 14.8pt; margin: 0cm 0cm 18.85pt;"> <span style="color: #111111; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 9.5pt;">While there are certainly circumstances to the contrary (such as abuse or other danger), who’s to say that staying in your relationship is the wrong choice?<o:p></o:p></span></span></div><div style="background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; line-height: 14.8pt; margin: 0cm 0cm 18.85pt;"><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 9.5pt;">You won’t usually read this, but many people have ended up worse-off for the rest of their lives after a divorce than if they’d stayed.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; line-height: 14.8pt; margin: 0cm 0cm 18.85pt;"><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 9.5pt;">Even if just for financial reasons, (which often means simple survival), it might be foolish to throw your marriage away over an affair.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; line-height: 14.8pt; margin: 0cm 0cm 18.85pt;"><span style="color: #111111; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 9.5pt;">What you end up deciding to do is your decision and yours alone. 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She becomes more in touch with her sexuality and she becomes more confident when it comes to sexual activity. For women, this is known as the sexual peak and it happens to most women around the age of 30. This is when women feel</span><br /><span style="font-family: "verdana";">most comfortable in their skin and most comfortable with their ability to please a man. If you don’t feel this way, then you just need a little help to get there.</span><br /><br style="font-family: Verdana;" /><span style="font-family: "verdana";">If you are still worried about the little things in the bedroom and if you are still one of those women who doesn’t like your man to see you nude, then you have got to change something. You are missing out on feeling what sex is supposed to bring to you so it is time that you did something about it.</span><br /><br style="font-family: Verdana;" /><span style="font-family: "verdana";">You need a sexual boost. 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Make him explode with pleasure in bed tonight. <b><a href="http://0c963ws6w0z52fej49327awmfq.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=SEXTIPSWOMENLOVE">Click here</a></b>.</span><br /><span style="font-family: "verdana";"><br /></span><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://0c963ws6w0z52fej49327awmfq.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=SEXTIPSWOMENLOVE"><img border="0" src="http://www.howtopleasehim.com/banners468.jpg" height="51" width="400" /></a></div><i><br /></i><i>This article is brought to you by Women Love</i>Andraldri Hillonhttps://plus.google.com/105764401250488003798noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1734509660077091432.post-87247992213535834502012-05-24T14:40:00.005-07:002012-05-24T14:40:56.509-07:00How to get your spouse to love you again<i>This article is brought to you by Women Love</i><br /><a href="http://1f4b71saz1x93g2ipffkgb49ob.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=SAVEMYMARRIAGE" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="300" src="http://www.savemymarriagetoday.com/affiliates/images/p2.jpg" width="278" /></a>Like the seasons, love in a relationship grows and wanes.<br /><br />One of the most common myths in marriages is the belief that when the love wanes the relationship is over.<br /><br />It's not.<br /><br />If your spouse says 'I have fallen out of love with you,' don't panic. It doesn't mean your marriage is over. It doesn't even mean they don't love you. What it does mean is that your spouse has lost their way, or doesn't understand the many stages love and a relationship goes through.<br /><br />You are being called to take charge of the situation, guide your spouse towards understanding this process, and even begin to rekindle your relationship.<br /><br />The key to success is in understanding what is happening in your marriage and the role that love plays. It's very easy for us to connect losing the feelings of being in love with actual loving when it is not really the case.<br /><br />After the initial thrill of romance is gone, couples often find themselves lost and confused. What they don't realize is that love is not just this heady lustful feeling that carries us away. That feeling has a shelf life. When the prospect of spending years together sets in, the correct question to ask one's self would be 'How now do I love without the initial thrill?'<br /><br />We have to discover that every relationship has stages:<br /><br />- falling in love,<br />- the honeymoon stage<br />- chaos or disillusionment,<br />- then mature love or resolution.<br /><br />We are very quick to judge that we no longer love someone just because the feelings fade. With proper understanding, we can expect that even if the feeling may not be there, it doesn't mean we don't love.<br /><br />In truth, love is a commitment. It is not just a feeling, it is a doing thing. A mature person loves by choice and not simply by circumstance.<br /><br />The next step would be to manage your partner's feelings or lack thereof by starting with dialogue. Talk about the feelings and find out what happened, where is it coming from? There are numerous tools and methods available for a couple ' together or with a counselor/mediator ' that would help them examine their present situation. Talk to your spouse and tell him or her that the relationship deserves at the very least, dialogue.<br /><br />In dialogue, let your spouse talk and you listen. There may be important things you need to learn about your spouse and your marriage. On the other hand, you can also share your own feelings about what is happening. Try not to place blame on your spouse, however, but share your thoughts and feelings by using 'I feel' statements.<br /><br />In the meantime, do some self-improvement. It is never too late to evolve into a happier, more mature and more lovable person - even if it's just something you do for yourself. For all you know, this new you will be more attractive to your spouse and come as a surprise to him or her.<br /><br />Finally, don't stop reinforcing your presence in the marriage. Do some positive loving acts for your spouse without expecting anything in return. These mirror your mature, positive view of what love really is. Make these acts little things. They don't have to be grand gestures.<br /><br />It's the everyday things that actually build trust, intimacy and love between couples.<br /><br /><br />**********************************************************<br /><br />Based on <a href="http://1f4b71saz1x93g2ipffkgb49ob.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=SAVEMYMARRIAGE">Save My Marriage Today</a>.<br /><br />You may be making mistakes that will jeopardize your marriage recovery! <a href="http://1f4b71saz1x93g2ipffkgb49ob.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=SAVEMYMARRIAGE">My Save My Marriage Today</a> course has helped save thousands of marriages and is guaranteed to deliver results or your money back.<br /><br />You can't afford to give your marriage 50%. You need 100% - you need the BEST, PROVEN METHODS and information now! You have to learn what it takes to save your marriage. 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Communication is such a fickle thing, and the lines of communication can become blurred every so often, especially when love and feelings are involved. Even those who think that they are immune to the confusion of conflict can find themselves drawn into a communication breakdown when they least expect it, and chaos ensues.<br /><br />Even those of us who are better equipped than many others are not immune. This happened to me on the weekend, and until to be quite honest, it took me by surprise. My spouse told me something that really hurt my feelings, and I automatically lashed back in defense.<br /><br />It was a silly argument, over something as simple as a misplaced bottle of perfume. But to me, it represented something much deeper that had been simmering away for a couple of weeks. I get frustrated at having to search for something when it is not where I expect it to be, worse still when my partner has shifted it and I don't know the first place to begin searching.<br /><br />Perfume, needles and thread, car keys, a Tupperware container to store my baking soda in, covers for our outdoor chairs, all were examples of instances where I had to turn the house upside-down. A simple answer from my spouse when these things were shifted would have saved me a lot of time and frustration. And the answer I got? "You need to open your eyes and organize yourself better"<br /><br />I was gutted. When I come home from work I exercise the dog and cook dinner so that it is on the table by the time my partner gets home. The house is always spotless and warm, as I'm very conscious of coming home to a tidy environment.<br /><br />I see this as a fundamental part of my role in coming home first, and it takes a lot of my time. To imply that I have the time to "organize yourself better" really hurt.<br /><br />I don't expect praise, but I did hope that my efforts were recognized. I got told that "I don't expect you to cook my dinner every night." That was interpreted by me as ingratitude, and hurt me even more.<br /><br />So where to from here? My spouse felt guilty at coming home every night to the perfect household, where I felt guilty if it wasn't perfect. It was never about me trying to make my spouse feel guilty, but it seems it did. And this is where the communication fell down. He misinterpreted my efforts, and I misinterpreted his response.<br /><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://1f4b71saz1x93g2ipffkgb49ob.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=SAVEMYMARRIAGE"><img border="0" height="48" src="http://www.savemymarriagetoday.com/affiliates/images/banners/SMMT_728x90.gif" width="400" /></a></div><br />Communication, communication, communication. I needed my partner to keep me informed of where things move to. I need to be informed. I need to voice my frustration before it gets to boiling point. We both need to talk about our feelings more, and how each of our contributions to our home and our relationship make us feel, and how we interpret each others contributions.<br /><br />Just because something isn't spoken about, doesn't mean it's not important. A relationship or marriage is not a competition, but for many couples it feels like it.<br /><br />When people feel guilt or stress, it leads them to act funny ways. Often stress and guilt are barriers to communication. The key to overcoming them is to recognize what it is, and have the courage to talk about it. You might be able to do it as a couple, or you might want the help of a friend who can listen to the way you are communicating with each other and offer insights and advice.<br /><br />We got it sorted out, and kissed and hugged. It wouldn't hurt so much if I didn't feel such love at the same time. But it served as a good reminder to me. Sometimes you get so wrapped up in your own emotions that you forget to think of the other person. You also need to entertain the possibility that you are misinterpreting each other. Talking about it is the way to expose the miscommunication and let the healing begin.<br /><br />A good lesson to learn, even for the experts'<br /><br />*******************************************************************************<br /><br />This article is written based on the book <a href="http://1f4b71saz1x93g2ipffkgb49ob.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=SAVEMYMARRIAGE">Save My Marriage Today</a>.<br /><br />You may be making mistakes that will jeopardize your marriage recovery! My Save My Marriage Today course has helped save thousands of marriages and is guaranteed to deliver results or your money back.<br /><br />You can't afford to give your marriage 50%. 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For a fraction of the cost of a counselor, you can save your marriage!<br /><br />All the best,<br /><br />Andraldri<br /><br /><br /><div style="text-align: right;"><i>This article is brought to you by Women Love</i></div>Andraldri Hillonhttps://plus.google.com/105764401250488003798noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1734509660077091432.post-31409929043059494692012-05-23T08:08:00.002-07:002012-05-23T08:08:45.390-07:00Don't Give Up on Dating Without Trying This First<i>This article is brought to you by Women Love</i><br /><br /><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">Dating SHOULD be easy.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">There's enough dating advice online, in women's magazines, and on talk shows to solve every woman's problems.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">So why aren't we all happily married to our perfect mate?<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">I asked myself this question recently when yet another lovely woman in her forties introduced herself to me, saying that she'd been single for the past decade and she was ready to give up on men.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">"It's too much work," she said. "I can't sit around waiting for a man to drop onto my front doorstep. I've got to get on with my life. And if that means that I don't end up meeting someone, so be it." She shrugged.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">My heart dropped when she said that.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">I know it's difficult to meet men (and even more difficult to find one worth your time), but that doesn't mean you have to GIVE UP on love.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">Would you resign yourself to a lifetime alone just because it's "easier" staying single?<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">I knew what I had to do.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">Dating Advice for REAL Women<o:p></o:p></span></b></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">Most of us women don't need more dating advice.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">We've been married or in a serious relationship before. We're not novices. We know more about men than a lot of people!<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">But what we DON'T know is why love isn't happening as easily for us this time around.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">There's something tripping us up. Maybe there just aren't as many good men around these days. Maybe we're just not sending off the right vibes. Maybe the dating world has moved on. Maybe it's old-fashioned to expect courtship and marriage anymore.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">What we need is some sort of diagnostic tool to hone in on the REAL reason our love life seems stuck in first gear.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">Luckily, I knew just the thing...<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">My Story<o:p></o:p></span></b></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">I've spent the past five years devouring dating research as part of my quest to unravel what modern women need to know about love.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">I can't count the number of times I've read about some "magical secret" that would trigger a man's psychological commitment switch, or some "secret power" that would enable a woman to seduce any man she laid eyes on.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">To me, those kinds of tricks always seemed rather silly.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">Like many women, I didn't want power over men. I just wanted to be HAPPY. </span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">And part of "being happy" was having someone - just one man, thank you very much - to share my life with!<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">My needs were quite simple: all I wanted was someone I could trust, who loved me like I loved him, and who would be there for me no matter what. That's it.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">And I knew that I wasn't alone. Most women, if they're honest with themselves, want the same thing.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">So why, then, was it still so hard?<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">Why couldn't all the dating advice in the world change the fact that so many of us women were still on our own with no decent prospects in sight?<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">The Secret to Attracting Love<o:p></o:p></span></b></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">I found the answer unexpectedly. It wasn't in some dating manual or relationships guide. It was in a classic self-help book published back in the 1980s.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">In an instant, it changed everything for me.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">The secret to attracting love, I discovered, didn't have anything to do with pushing a man's buttons or making him see us in an attractive light.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">That's where we were all going wrong.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">Most dating advice wrongly assumes that you need to DO something or CHANGE something about yourself to be more attractive to men.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">Actually, you don't need to convince men of ANYTHING.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">Putting too much energy and attention into attracting men can actually achieve the opposite.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">So what does it really take to turn your luck in love around?<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">Find out in <b>The REAL Women REAL Love Guide to Fearless Dating!</b><o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">Come on a Journey with Me<o:p></o:p></span></b></div><div class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><br /></span></b></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">In my latest ebook, I take my readers on an emotional journey.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">We travel through our thoughts, feelings, and past heartbreak to find the root of our issues with men.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">It's a journey of discovery, and it's not always easy. It can be hard to look inside and see the truth of what you feel.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">It can be hard to face up to who you've always been and who you've always wanted to be.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">But nothing good ever comes without a little hard work, does it?<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">My course will take you to a place where you finally feel happy with yourself, happy with your life, and wholly, completely loved.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">Would you like to go there with me?<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">Join me on the adventure of a lifetime, with my <i><a href="http://5657dy2a66t1s4cgaes5vp8kax.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=REALWOMENREAL">Guide to Fearless Dating</a>.</i><o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><i><br /></i></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><a href="http://5657dy2a66t1s4cgaes5vp8kax.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=REALWOMENREAL"><b>It's time to claim the love youdeserve.</b></a><o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><br /><i>This article is brought to you by Women Love</i>Andraldri Hillonhttps://plus.google.com/105764401250488003798noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1734509660077091432.post-86565597423722945442012-05-23T06:40:00.002-07:002012-05-23T06:40:24.975-07:00How to naturally get your man to propose<i>This article is brought to you by Women Love</i><br /><br /><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"> <o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">Have you been with your man for sometime and wonder where your relationship is going? Do you find it very frustrating that he just seems to be coasting by and not making any plans to take your relationship further? How can you get your man to propose to you without manipulation or giving him an ultimatum?<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">My friend Nicole Gayle has created a program that answers all of your questions about men and marriage. She's done 3 years of research on why men marry some women and not others. You can watch her brand new video here: <o:p></o:p></span><a href="http://bad4a8162zqzz94erlzza2ub8d.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=GIRL2WIFE" style="background-color: #fff9ee; color: #ff1900; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; line-height: 21px;">www.attractingmenmastery.com</a></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">The key to getting your man or a man who's in love with you to propose to you is being aware of what qualities you need to adopt into your life and live on a consistent basis. You must be and live these qualities for you first, not for a man.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">Without this level of awareness, you will think that your man or a man is in charge of your happiness. Furthermore you will grow to feel entitled to needing a ring because he's been with you for sometime.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">Men marry for very specific reasons and most women aren't in tuned with these reasons, mostly because they aren't in tuned with themselves. They try to become a title or act in ways that they think men want without truly having a deeper understanding of their own inner world as well as a man's psyche.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">You must first be in touch with your inner world on a consistent basis and understand that your happiness comes before trying to "make" a man happy. </span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">Men are attracted to women who have their own happiness as their top priority. Because then a man will not feel that he is responsible for your happiness.</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">This first step alone will help to capture a man's heart when he's aware that your life and what you want does not revolve around him. A lot of women get really confused about this. They don't know how to really establish good boundaries with men. Here's an example: if you're up really late and he texts you after a certain time asking you to call or want to chat, the best thing to do is don't bother responding but get back to him the next day. Unless it's an emergency, leave it alone instead. If you don't and you respond to his late night texts, it will become a habit and you'll find yourself chatting with him after midnight and the conversation will most likely be around sex.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">The second huge tip is being a woman who's grounded in your own world of play. Men look for women who are sensuous, playful, and carefree. If you are uptight and overly sensitive, a man will see you as controlling and boring. There are many women who don't have the correct insight into their own emotional world and therefore don't understand when they are being angry, overly emotional, crazy, or just plain weird.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">It's difficult for a man to connect deeply with you if you aren't a playful woman. Women who are playful are seen as confident, happy, and in tune with their own sense of self. The key to opening up a man emotionally is to connect with him through play. If he doesn't feel a deep emotional connection with you, he won't want to take the relationship further. This isn't about trying really hard to "be" something. The harder you try to please a man, the less playful you will become. You must become one with a playful energy.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">There are many more top tips to being the kind of woman a man wants to marry. You should never hint at wanting a ring or marriage from a man or try to have the "relationship" talk with him because you want a deeper commitment. This will make you look bad.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">There is however a way to communicate what you want or what you're looking for from the relationship when it gets to a certain stage and knowing how to do this takes skill.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">Go watch her brand new video here: <o:p></o:p></span><a href="http://bad4a8162zqzz94erlzza2ub8d.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=GIRL2WIFE" style="background-color: #fff9ee; color: #ff1900; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; line-height: 21px;">www.attractingmenmastery.com</a></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://bad4a8162zqzz94erlzza2ub8d.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=GIRL2WIFE"><img border="0" height="60" src="http://www.attractingmenmastery.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/11/GTW-banner1.jpg" width="400" /></a></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><br /><i>This article is brought to you by Women Love</i>Andraldri Hillonhttps://plus.google.com/105764401250488003798noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1734509660077091432.post-90602537066109108572012-05-23T06:29:00.002-07:002012-05-23T06:35:20.325-07:005 Reasons Your Man Will Marry You<i>This article is brought to you by Women Love</i><br /><i><br /></i><br /><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Have you been thinking about what it takes to make your man want to marry you? How do you get him to have the natural urge to take your relationship towards an engagement? How about taking you to shop for engagement rings? Have you often dreamed what it could be like to finally have him want to passionately commit to marrying you?<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Here are 5 reasons he'll want to see you walk down the aisle. These are just 5 out of the many reasons but if you are able to exude these 5 traits, you'll have him wanting marriage in no time.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">1. You are happy with our without him</span></b><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">This may seem obvious but if you peel back the layers you will see the deeper meaning behind it and it will help your man determine whether he wants to take that leap towards marriage. You must develop your inner game in such a way where you are busting with joy no matter if your life isn't working the way you want at the moment. When you can show your man that you can be happy with or without him, he'll see a woman who has a heart of gratitude<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">2. You develop your inner game</span></b><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">When your man seems that you are working on making yourself into a better person because you believe in yourself, he'll want you to be by his side. Men want to see women who have a passion for making themselves better because it makes you appear that if you're always working on increasing your self awareness, he'll be able to trust you in a deeper way.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">3. You are kind towards him and others</span></b><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Men are used to being nurtured and if you have the ability to be understanding instead of judgmental, you will win him over and over again. The key is showing him your soft and graceful side without being his mama. The way you respond to others is huge because he's paying attention and taking notes. If you show a keen interest in others and always seek to see the best in other people, he'll continue to feel a deep bond to you that causes him to want to go ring shopping.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Go see why a Professional Family Life Coach/Therapist is raving about this program here:</span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; line-height: 115%;"> </span><a href="http://bad4a8162zqzz94erlzza2ub8d.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=GIRL2WIFE"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">www.attractingmenmastery.com</span></a></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">4. Your self love is more important to you than needing a relationship to validate you</span></b><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">In order to make your man leap towards marriage, you must show him that you have a passionate and ravaging love for yourself. He knows you're not perfect and it's not everyday you'll feel confident yet you are silently desiring to honor your needs. You must make loving yourself a top priority and show him by making good boundaries around what you will or won't tolerate.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">5. You are respectful and fun</span></b><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Nothing moves a man towards marriage faster than a freight train full of fun. When your motor is running on hot steam, it will make him sweat with desire to want to be around you all day long. The minute you stop being fun, he'll start walking backwards from a proposal. You must maintain your feminine playful, sexy energy and make sure you to commit to being a fun person so you can shine your best light for YOU and for those around you.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Moving your man or even a new relationship towards marriage faster is easy when you understand and put into practise these proven strategies. The key is to make a commitment to learn and understand the advanced techniques that will make him explode with desire for you.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Go see why a Professional Family Life Coach/Therapist is raving about this program here: <o:p></o:p></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><a href="http://bad4a8162zqzz94erlzza2ub8d.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=GIRL2WIFE">www.attractingmenmastery.com</a></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://bad4a8162zqzz94erlzza2ub8d.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=GIRL2WIFE"><img border="0" height="85" src="http://www.attractingmenmastery.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/11/banner-copy.jpg" width="400" /></a></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 19px;"><br /></span></span></div><i>This article is brought to you by Women Love</i>Andraldri Hillonhttps://plus.google.com/105764401250488003798noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1734509660077091432.post-30090539757321535912012-05-21T05:50:00.000-07:002012-05-21T05:50:21.654-07:00What to Do When a Flirting Spouse Leads to Marriage Problems by Nancy Wasson, Ph.D.<br /><i>brought to you by Women Love</i><br /><br /><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px;">When Alice first met Tim, she found him charming, outgoing, and easy to talk to. She thought he was very funny and witty, always the life of the party with everybody gathered around him. Sure, he flirted a lot, but while he was talking, he would turn to wink at her, take her hand, or put his arm around her as he continued talking.</span><br /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><div style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px;">But sometime in the following two years after their marriage, Alice started feeling differently about Tim’s extraverted side. It appeared to her that he was flirting too much and too obviously while she sat on the sidelines, feeling left out. Usually, Tim didn't even introduce Alice as his wife. If Alice said anything to Tim about her feelings, he told her that she was over reacting. As she became more and more hurt, resentful, and withdrawn, the emotional temperature in the marriage cooled considerably, and the marriage became less satisfying for both of them. Neither one knew what to do to improve the situation.</div><div style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px;"><br /></div><div style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px;">Flirting on the part of a spouse causes marriage problems for many couples. And it can at times be hard to distinguish between a spouse with an extraverted personality who just naturally likes to kid and joke around versus the partner who is continually “on the make.”</div><div style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px;">Flirting behavior has differing causes. If you have known your partner for a long time and have never had any reason to believe he or she has cheated on you, then you’re probably married to an extravert who has a flirty personality. This can still be annoying and frustrating, but at least you know what you’re dealing with.</div><div style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px;"><br /></div><div style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px;">Spouses can also flirt to meet their own emotional needs such as feeling liked, being popular, or being thought of as funny, attractive, entertaining, or sexy. Excessive flirting can be a sign of someone who is trying overly hard to attract and keep attention focused on himself or herself because they are needy emotionally.</div><div style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px;"><br /></div><div style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px;">Flirting can also be a passive-aggressive way of getting even with a spouse. The partner may have felt rejected sexually and emotionally, so the flirting can be a message to the partner to shape up or risk divorce. It can also be an attempt to get the spouse’s attention, hoping to make her or him jealous and bring about an increase in the marital passion. Either way, it could mean that a <a href="http://9593c5u5sxo6vad8mawm0n8m42.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=KEEPYOURMARRIAGE" style="color: purple;">troubled marriage</a> is on the horizon.</div><div style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px;"><br /></div><div style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px;">And, of course, excessive consistent flirting can be a sign of someone with a sexual addiction who is constantly on the prowl looking for his or her next sexual contact and conquest. A spouse in this category needs professional help from an addictions counselor, but the help won’t be effective unless the person is willing to be helped.</div><div style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px;"><br /></div><div align="center" style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px;"><span class="redlarge" style="color: #cc0000; font-size: 20px; font-weight: bold;">Here's What You Can Do About Your Spouse's Flirtatious Ways</span></div><div align="center" style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px;"><span class="redlarge" style="color: #cc0000; font-size: 20px; font-weight: bold;"><br /></span></div><div style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px;">One of the steps you can take is to write a letter summarizing your feelings. In the case of Alice and Tim mentioned in the opening paragraphs, Alice could tell Tim how much the fact that he doesn’t introduce her to others as his wife hurts her feelings. She could ask for him to include her in the conversations, to hold her hand, to put his arm around her, or to turn and smile at her occasionally. That way she is telling him some things he could do to lessen her anxiety and distress.</div><div style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px;"><br /></div><div style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px;">Another thing Alice could do is to become more assertive about speaking up, becoming a part of the conversation when Tim is flirting, and letting people know that she’s Tim’s wife. If Tim says, “This is Alice” when introducing her, Alice could say, “Nice to meet you. I’m Tim’s wife.” Note that I’m not advocating that Alice follow Tim around or try to “catch” him in flirting behavior—that’s a recipe for <a href="http://9593c5u5sxo6vad8mawm0n8m42.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=KEEPYOURMARRIAGE" style="color: purple;">marriage crisis</a>. But I am suggesting that when she is already present, she can casually drop into conversation that she and Tim are married, such as “It’s fun to have such a witty husband! Tim has always been able to make me laugh.”</div><div style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px;"><br /></div><div style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px;">Don’t get into an argument about whether you are over-reacting to your spouse’s flirting. Say up front that you realize the two of you just have differing perceptions and you’re not accusing him of doing anything wrong. You just know that if you don’t share your feelings and feel heard you may have resentments and hurt feelings that build up and eventually lead to marital problems. You want to feel that your spouse has really listened to your concerns, that your spouse cares about your feelings, and that your spouse is willing to try some new behaviors that will give you the reassurance you need.</div><div style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px;"><br /></div><div style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px;">You could also suggest that the two of you see a <a href="http://9593c5u5sxo6vad8mawm0n8m42.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=KEEPYOURMARRIAGE" style="color: purple;">marriage counselor</a> if the letter writing and talking don’t accomplish what you desire. If your spouse is still convinced that the only thing that needs to change is for you to be more accepting of the flirting behavior, then <a href="http://9593c5u5sxo6vad8mawm0n8m42.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=KEEPYOURMARRIAGE" style="color: purple;">marriage counseling</a> might help. When suggesting <a href="http://9593c5u5sxo6vad8mawm0n8m42.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=KEEPYOURMARRIAGE" style="color: purple;">marriage guidance</a> counseling, you might need to focus on wanting to get advice from the <a href="http://9593c5u5sxo6vad8mawm0n8m42.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=KEEPYOURMARRIAGE" style="color: purple;">marital counselor</a> to help you make the changes you need to. If you focus on wanting to get your spouse to a counselor so he or she will change, your attempts will likely fall flat.</div><div style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px;"><br /></div><div style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px;">The bottom line is that partners who love each other and are in a healthy marriage will want to listen to their spouse, take their feelings into consideration, and take steps to improve communication and intimacy. Showing consistent disrespect and disregard for a mate’s feelings and perceptions indicates there are serious marriage problems lurking beneath the excessive flirting behavior—and it’s time to seek professional help.</div><div style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px;">Otherwise, a downward spiral leading to <a href="http://9593c5u5sxo6vad8mawm0n8m42.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=KEEPYOURMARRIAGE" style="color: purple;">marriage separation</a> and divorce are real possibilities.</div><div align="center" style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px;"><span style="color: #cc0000;"><b><br /></b></span></div></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;"><b>* * * * *</b></div><div class="MsoNormal"><b><br /></b></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://9593c5u5sxo6vad8mawm0n8m42.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=KEEPYOURMARRIAGE" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;" target="_blank"><img border="0" src="http://www.keepyourmarriage.com/Images4/KYM_cover.jpg" /></a></div><div class="MsoNormal">Copyright © Nancy Wasson. All rights reserved. Nancy Wasson is co-author of <b><i>Keep Your Marriage: What to Do When Your Spouse Says</i></b> "I don't love you anymore!" This is available at <a href="http://9593c5u5sxo6vad8mawm0n8m42.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=KEEPYOURMARRIAGE" target="_blank">http://www.KeepYourMarriage.com</a>, where you can also sign up for the free weekly <b><i>Keep Your Marriage Internet Magazine</i></b> to get ideas and support for dealing with marriage separation.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><i>-brought to you by Women Love-</i></div>Andraldri Hillonhttps://plus.google.com/105764401250488003798noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1734509660077091432.post-66527923222412274052012-05-19T22:58:00.004-07:002012-05-19T22:58:47.219-07:00Flirting With Men - How To Do It<i>This article is brought to you by Women Love</i><br /><i><br /></i><br /><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.meetyoursweet.com/?aff=andraldri&pg=getguywom&id=firework" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://www.meetyoursweet.com/attractmen/images/banners/300.gif" /></a></div>Sometimes, the best opportunity to be better at attracting men is lying right under our noses. Everyday, life is full of little chances that will help us become more of a “people person”, which of course leads to GREATER irresistibility!<br /><br />Even the most mundane of situations present a way for you to become better at conversing with folks of all shapes and sizes (along with quality men!). Starting today, all you need to do is keep an eye out for chances to develop your conversational skills and self-confidence in general.<br /><br />Understandably, women who haven’t developed the habit of getting there and mingling with other people won’t be used to kicking off a great conversation. In other words, the thought of chatting with strangers is unappealing to these girls – or even downright SCARY.<br /><br />All it really takes are the right ideas which will help enforce the habit of chatting up all sorts of folks. So for today, THIS is exactly what we’re going discover.<br /><br />Of course, if you would like the shortcut to your seduction success, you can check out Meet Your Sweet’s ‘Get a Guy Guide:’<br /><br /><a href="http://www.meetyoursweet.com/?aff=andraldri&pg=getguywom&id=firework">http://www.meetyoursweet.com/attractmen/ </a><br /><br />Now, I’d like to familiarize you with the most basic aspects of being a friendlier, more approachable version of yourself in order to make men (and other folks in general) naturally responsive to you.<br /><br />This is where the importance of FLIRTING comes in. <br /><br />You might think that flirting is about making raunchy innuendo. Perhaps your idea of being a good flirt has to do with lacing your conversation with sexual implications and the like.<br /><br />Well, this is actually just a misconception that’s given the fine art of flirting a bad rap these days. The funny truth is that you can flirt with just about any stranger out there, whether he’s a guy OR a girl!<br /><br />Before you get all confused with my last statement, let me clear up what flirting is all about. It’s the ability to elicit GOOD FEELINGS within a person, regardless of gender.<br /><br />Basically, the point of flirting is a basic desire to spread feel-good vibes among the people that you meet WITHOUT wanting anything in return (like a date or romantic attention!).<br /><br />Although your intentions for flirting are to simply have fun with everyone, the ironic twist is that you’ll also happen to attract guys in the process!<br /><br />When you come across as a lady who has a natural tendency to make EVERYONE around her FEEL GREAT, then that’s what good flirting is all about!<br /><br />If you’re able to associate your presence with positive emotions, it would make sense for people to want to be around you. With that said, how does a girl go about working on her flirtation skills?<br /><br /><b>#1: Pay them a compliment</b><br /><br />Before you start handing out words of praise like they were going out of style tomorrow, you need to have a CLEAR idea of what this is all about.<br /><br />Like what I said about sincerity earlier, you want to make people feel good about themselves with no ulterior motive. Anyone would be turned off by someone who was obviously just sucking up to him or her.<br /><br />It’s easy to feel this way if the person got a whiff of phoniness from a compliment. For instance, people can tell if you’re firing off a flattering remark with NO THOUGHT at all…<br /><br />…whereas EARNESTLY observing something important to the person and praising it accordingly will deeply resonate within him or her!<br /><br />Although this seems like a doozy to pull off, it’s actually not as hard as it sounds. A smart girl like you just needs to put her powers of observation to good use!<br /><br />As I mentioned at the start of this newsletter, all you have to do is look out for things “hidden” in plain sight. Greater AWARENESS is vital in situations like these, so keep your eyes peeled for things to compliment people on!<br /><br />The next time you run into someone with whom you can talk to for a bit, try your hand at making him/her feel good with some well-placed words of praise. <br /><br />Don’t feel like they have to like you because of it, what’s important is that you simply felt like saying something nice for the heck of it. No more, no less!<br /><br />For instance, if that new guy sitting next to your cubicle at work has a cool screensaver from the movie “Avatar” on his monitor, make a brief but meaningful comment if the situation allows it.<br /><br />Saying something like “Hey, that’s a sweet screensaver – I guess you like the movie even more than I did!”<br /><br />This is a great way to establish some RAPPORT and VALIDATE his personal interests.<br /><br />Pretty soon, you might be adding more fuel to the fire by saying “I love how the film gave the expression ’walking in someone else’s shoes’ a new meaning!”<br /><br />And who knows, it may serve as a starting point for a longer conversation! In this example, all you wanted to do was to take notice of something you HONESTLY liked and gave him props for it.<br /><br /> Sometimes, taking the initiative to pay a sincere compliment goes a long way!<br /><br /><b><br /></b><br /><b>#2: Keep it light, keep it fun!</b><br /><br />Now that we’ve established that flirting is meant to make others feel good, you also need to know about another important guideline. You can’t generate those things within someone if you don’t feel good about yourself to begin with!<br /><br />Anyone with an infectiously pleasant personality knows that having that a positive attitude begets the same vibe from the people around them. That’s why you need to be “in the zone” when you’re mingling with the folks you run into.<br /><br />You have to remember that your level of energy must be just as high (if not higher) than the person you’re talking to. Otherwise, your flirting efforts will be a lost cause.<br /><br />But that doesn’t mean you have to transform into a hyperactive version of yourself – you just have to go by a few important pointers to make sure that you’re always in top form!<br /><br />For instance, thinking too much is one of the biggest positive attitude-killers that will keep you from being at your most flirtatious. Some women have a tendency to let the inner chatter in their heads DISTRACT them.<br /><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.meetyoursweet.com/?aff=andraldri&pg=getguywom&id=firework"><img border="0" height="49" src="http://www.meetyoursweet.com/attractmen/images/banners/728.gif" width="400" /></a></div><br />I’m sure anyone at some point in their social lives has made the mistake of trying TOO HARD to sound witty or clever. The end result of this habit is that you end up thinking of what to say next without bothering to LISTEN to the person in front of you.<br /><br />Why pressure yourself and act like your life depended on it? It doesn’t work that way!<br /><br />This line of thinking defeats the very purpose of flirting, which is to establish rapport by being playful, relaxed and fun-loving. Driving yourself mad with thoughts like “I hope this guy likes me” will only keep you from giving him your full attention (which is a very ATTRACTIVE thing to do!).<br /><br />So do yourself a favor and just keep your ears peeled to the conversation. That’s the best way to keep the fun going! <br /><br />Let me give you an example. Pretend that the guy you’re talking to just told you about a great experience he had camping out with his buddies by the lake over the weekend.<br /><br />Maybe he mentioned that he got a kick out of momentarily leaving his hectic city life behind and relaxing in the wilderness. Paying ATTENTION to a key point such as this would then allow you to share some of your own thoughts to complement his.<br /><br />Then you can say something in a similar train of thought: “Wow, that sounds like a lot of fun! You know, sometimes I need a little peace and quiet myself when the week gets crazy…so every now and then I do my own thing by chilling out at home, turn up my Zen music and curl up with a good book!”<br /><br />Bingo! Not only did you indirectly praise his interests, you’ve also created some excellent common ground between you two!<br /><br />And you weren’t even trying to impress him by topping his story; all you really did was to take something he finds important and give it right back at him!<br /><br />To recap: DON’T psych yourself out by thinking that a failed attempt at flirting is going to be the death of you!<br /><br />Relax into the moment and keep a cool head about yourself. What should a sassy girl like you be afraid of anyway?<br /><br />Flirting is a playful way of testing the waters with a guy. A lighthearted verbal exchange is meant to let you know if your personalities are going to mesh well.<br /><br />If not, it’s certainly NOT any great loss on your part so there’s nothing to be freaked out about!<br /><br />As far as the big picture is concerned, taking these little hiccups in stride by staying POSITIVE is actually an attractive trait to have. More importantly, the motivation for flirting is to simply share your joy for living with others!<br /><br />And that’s a lot easier to do than wanting people to like you. Go for an impression that tells people, “I’m having FUN talking with you” instead of something off-putting like “Won’t you please like me?”<br /><br />If you want to keep the things fun, DON’T let your mind wander into thoughts about the OUTCOME of your conversation. <br /><br />What happens AFTER the conversation is irrelevant. The important thing is that you’re living IN THE MOMENT, totally focused on the person you’re chatting with.<br /><br />Did he laugh at your jokes? Great! Did he give you the cold shoulder? Great! <br /><br />See, it doesn’t matter because this doesn’t have any bearing on who you are as a woman. The great thing about these experiences is that you LEARN from your accomplishments (or mistakes) every time!<br /><br />So the next time you head out of the house, don’t forget to ditch the negative self-talk and leave your unreasonably harsh inner critic at the door!<br /><br />The general idea is to open up to the rest of humanity out there and welcome the chances that come your way. <br /><br />The broad spectrum of your cheerful personality is going affect everyone around you: your family, friends, colleagues…and of course, the potential Mr. Right's waiting to meet you!<br /><br />---------------------------------------------------------------------------<br /><br />This article comes to you courtesy of <a href="http://www.meetyoursweet.com/?aff=andraldri&pg=getguywom&id=firework">www.meetyoursweet.com</a><br /><br />If you are serious about changing your love life success, the first step on your journey of self discovery needs to be with Meet Your Sweet’s “Get a Guy Guide.”<br /><br />If you want genuine men, and not just any man, let Mirabelle Summers and the team challenge your beliefs about love and attraction, and show you the way to become a seduction success story.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.meetyoursweet.com/?aff=andraldri&pg=getguywom&id=firework">http://www.meetyoursweet.com/attractmen </a><br /><br />No games. No scripted lines. Real life dating advice for real women!<br />---------------------------------------------------------------------------<br /><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.meetyoursweet.com/?aff=andraldri&pg=getguywom&id=firework"><img border="0" height="48" src="http://www.meetyoursweet.com/attractmen/images/banners/728.gif" width="400" /></a></div><br /><br /><div style="text-align: center;"><i>This article is brought to you by Women Love</i></div>Andraldri Hillonhttps://plus.google.com/105764401250488003798noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1734509660077091432.post-76386268087601108412012-05-19T22:28:00.000-07:002012-05-19T22:28:35.361-07:00Overcoming Myths About Men<i>This article is brought to you by Women Love</i><br /><i><br /></i><br /><div class="MsoNormal"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.meetyoursweet.com/?aff=andraldri&pg=getgirlwom&id=firework" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://www.meetyoursweet.com/attractmen/images/banners/250.gif" /></a></div><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Have you ever found yourself making the same mistake over and over simply because you didn’t know any better at the time?<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">We’re all human – from time to time we unintentionally make the occasional blunder due to a bunch of mistaken assumptions running in the back of our mind.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">These false beliefs keep us blissfully unaware that our ill-informed decisions will actually lead us to disaster! <o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">And you know what? This isn’t a bad thing in itself because learning from our mistakes adds to our body of knowledge. However, wouldn’t you want to AVOID making these boo-boos if you COULD?<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">This is why you need to UNLEARN any incorrect notions that could cloud your better judgment.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Sometimes, it just takes another pair of eyes to identify the mindsets that could drive you towards perfectly preventable mistakes. Gain some fresh insight by going here:<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><a href="http://www.meetyoursweet.com/?aff=andraldri&pg=getgirlwom&id=firework">http://www.meetyoursweet.com/attractmen/</a><o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">How many times have you gotten into a situation that yielded bad results because you had the wrong ideas in mind? <o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Certain perceptions of men can mess up your chances of having a great relationship with them. When we assume given things about the opposite sex, your actions could PREVENT the relationship from going in a healthy direction.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Thus, let’s take a look at a couple of the most common myths about men which you need to steer clear of:<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><b>#1: Guys are into "low maintenance" women.</b><o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Actually, this wouldn't be a problem if the term "low maintenance" wasn't misconstrued in the first place. Oftentimes, when some misguided women hear this adjective, they equate it to having no opinion of their own and being a complete PUSHOVER.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">This attitude reminds me of the 1950's housewife archetype often portrayed in TV sitcoms of the same era.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">You know what I'm talking about: Sugary-sweet on the outside, but brimming with unspoken emotions on the inside. <o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">She's the one who's afraid to mess up a perfectly good relationship by speaking up too much. This is the kind of girl who has regrettably shut off her ability to express her feelings in a healthy way.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Sadly, this glaring misconception is unconsciously driving many women to behave in a very NEEDY way. In the back of their minds, they take the idea of being low-maintenance to such an EXTREME that they've become a mere shadow of their former selves.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Being “low maintenance” in the truest sense of the word is defined by REALISTIC qualities. <o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">This is a well-adjusted, reasonable person who doesn’t throw a fit when her partner unwittingly makes the occasional offhand remark.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">(And I emphasize “OCCASIONAL”, as opposed to “habitually”, but anyway…)<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">This is also the kind of girl who can properly manage her feelings MOST of the time and keeps emotional meltdowns to a reasonable minimum. When it comes to mood swings, low maintenance women don’t often have these and only under the most stressful of circumstances.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">All in all, this is an ideal picture of what low maintenance is all about.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Therefore, it’s NOT about being so laid-back to the point where you’re frazzled and out of breath from trying to please a guy’s every whim…<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">…or even TOLERATE selfishness.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">And being low maintenance is definitely a far cry from transforming into a disturbingly submissive version of yourself.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Remember, there’s a difference between a cool girl that doesn’t get upset over the little things… <o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">…and the emotional SLAVE who doesn’t have any purpose aside from sacrificing her dignity and independence in the name of “love”.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">The mentality you should have is that a relationship is NOT the only thing you have going for you.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">If you would make a map of your life right now, would you say it’s dominated by huge chunks of land exclusively reserved for a boyfriend? <o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Or does this map have equally allocated areas meant for your family, friends, career and hobbies?<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Even though we’re always talking about how to get into a good, healthy relationship, you have to understand that this is only ONE PART of your multi-faceted self. <o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">The SUM of your pursuits in life defines who you are.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">If you build your universe around whether you’re single or not, your resulting actions will create a very unattractive impression of neediness. <o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">You wouldn’t want anyone to believe that having a boyfriend is the ONLY thing that motivates you in life, right? You know you’re TOO GOOD to act like that.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Don’t get me wrong – it’s WONDERFUL to have a partner who adores and respects you. That crazy rush you feel when you fall in love can greatly inspire you do great things in the other areas of your life.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">However, my point is that you should still retain a good sense of PERSPECTIVE when you *do* get into a relationship. What that means is that you’d be just as fine even if you didn’t have a boyfriend at the moment.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Your life was just as fine before you met him, and you can certainly leave if you’re not being treated the way you should be. <o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Of course, I don’t mean this in an arrogant way nor am I suggesting that our partners should be the pushovers instead!<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">All I’m saying is that you shouldn’t be scared to leave the comfort zone of your relationship if it isn’t helping your personal growth.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Also, in no way should you cover up your true feelings by waiving your right to SPEAK UP if you need to (i.e. when the terms are unfavorable). <o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">A good relationship is always a TWO-WAY street, so don’t let the low-maintenance myth (or rather, misconception) tell you otherwise.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><b>#2: Falling in Love is Eternal Bliss Guaranteed</b><o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">The other common trap women fall into is the assumption that those butterfly-in-the-stomach feelings you first get when you meet someone will remain CONSTANT in the relationship.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">However, this just isn’t going to happen. Even happily married couples who’ve been together for decades know that their initial infatuation for each other evolved into a deeper and more MATURE sense of loving.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">This kind of love goes beyond the initial rush that all new couples go through. This is the love that’s weathered countless emotional storms, power struggles and other CHALLENGES.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">The end result is a rock-solid relationship that doesn’t constantly require you to feel the heart-quickening rush found in infatuation. <o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">But there’s no reason to panic over this fact of life. You shouldn’t be afraid of outgrowing this primary stage in your relationship since better things are headed your way.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Over time, the falling in love stage will eventually be replaced by something more powerful in the long run. It’s just that you’re going to go through a series of trials as a couple before you get there.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Don’t buy into the myth that loving your guy as you do now will be enough to get you through the years. Remember that neither of you are perfect; somewhere along the way, your “little” differences are going to catch up to you.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">(I’ve heard of couples breaking up over their brand of toothpaste, but hopefully your own relationship won’t go to that extreme!)<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">I’ll be honest with you here – you’re going to FIGHT tooth and nail over things like this, and you’re going to wake up and smell the coffee sooner or later. But power struggles are NORMAL after the familiarity settles in.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">If you can accept the reality that love will inevitably undergo a transformation over time, then you’ll have no reason to worry about the growing pains in your relationship.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Otherwise, insisting that everything will run smoothly or take care of itself will BLIND you to speedbumps in the future.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Of course, I’m not saying you shouldn’t enjoy the moment because being HAPPY is the point of having a relationship, right? <o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">You just have to be aware that things will change eventually. However, you can stay happy as long as you’re cool with having to deal with the reality check phase in due time.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">(No need to worry your pretty little self about stuff UNTIL you have to!)<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">All in all, finding happiness in a man’s arms is best done by keeping a REALISTIC perspective no matter how head over heels you may feel at a given moment. <o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">There are a lot of impractical beliefs and notions that we women are unnecessarily exposed to in these modern times. Like it or not, picking up unrealistic perceptions of love and dating is just a TV show or DVD rental away.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">In this confusing sea of misinformation, a sassy girl definitely needs to keep her wits afloat! <o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">For the most part, whatever we read in books or see onscreen are distilled versions of life at best. It doesn’t necessarily reflect what happens in REAL situations!<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">So we can’t project unrealistic fantasies onto real life and NOT expect to run into problems! <o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">The real world naturally includes the complexities of human behavior. You need to keep this in mind when considering what men want from us and what we should expect from them.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">---------------------------------------------------------------------------<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">This article comes to you courtesy of <a href="http://www.meetyoursweet.com/?aff=andraldri&pg=getgirlwom&id=firework">www.meetyoursweet.com </a><o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">If you are serious about changing your love life success, the first step on your journey of self discovery needs to be with Meet Your Sweet’s “Get a Guy Guide.”<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">If you want genuine men, and not just any man, let Mirabelle Summers and the team challenge your beliefs about love and attraction, and show you the way to become a seduction success story.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><a href="http://www.meetyoursweet.com/?aff=andraldri&pg=getgirlwom&id=firework">http://www.meetyoursweet.com/attractmen</a><o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">No games. No scripted lines. Real life dating advice for real women!<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">---------------------------------------------------------------------------<o:p></o:p></span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.meetyoursweet.com/?aff=andraldri&pg=getgirlwom&id=firework"><img border="0" height="48" src="http://www.meetyoursweet.com/attractmen/images/banners/728.gif" width="400" /></a></div><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 19px;"><br /></span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><i>This article is brought to you by Women Love</i></div>Andraldri Hillonhttps://plus.google.com/105764401250488003798noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1734509660077091432.post-24520720502767327852012-05-19T22:02:00.000-07:002012-05-19T22:02:08.609-07:00Do You Want To Know If He is Mr. Right<i>This article is brought to you by Women Love</i><br /><i><br /></i><br /><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.meetyoursweet.com/?aff=andraldri&pg=monthlywom&id=AttTrans" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://www.meetyoursweet.com/monthly/images/banners/neutral/250.gif" /></a></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">Do you want to stop wasting your time trying to figure out if he’s Mr. Right? Are his mixed signals driving you NUTS? <o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">Perhaps you’d like to know if he’s truly ready to commit, or what are the qualities that will make him fall for you. We’re happy to inform you that starting TODAY, you can put all those lingering questions to rest.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">Men never came with an instruction manual, but here’s the next best thing:<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"><a href="http://www.meetyoursweet.com/?aff=andraldri&pg=monthlywom&id=AttTrans">http://www.meetyoursweet.com/monthly/women</a><o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">What lies inside are the best-kept secrets of the male psyche. Unlock them, and a prosperous love life awaits you!<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">Now then,<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">Have you ever worked with, or have friends who just seem programmed to be at ease with themselves…but are drop-dead gorgeous at the same time? Has it blown your mind to think how EFFORTLESS it is for some women to be themselves while attracting men left and right??<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">Are they just blessed with dumb luck, or are they onto something you’re not?<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">Let’s tackle a few basic traits that generate surefire attraction with the opposite sex:<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"># 1: Treat yourself like a prize, and he’ll follow suit<o:p></o:p></span></b></div><div class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"><br /></span></b></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">An irresistible woman knows that she’s worthy enough of a man’s time, affection, and most of all, RESPECT. She never seeks out a man because she feels like a relationship will save her.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">In fact, her life is so complete that she doesn’t need a guy to fix her or make her whole. A sassy woman is perfectly fine being single for the moment because she knows that Mr. Right will come along in due time.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">There isn’t any need to go into a panic or lower your standards just to make room for a guy who won’t treat you the way you should be. More importantly, you don’t try attracting a man out of DESPERATION, because that isn’t exactly an endearing quality.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">It’s absolutely essential to be a self-referenced woman who doesn’t seek a man out of social pressure. She allows a man into her life because he makes her happy and adds to her personal growth.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">Her relationship doesn’t define her life, but rather enriches it. The problem with a lot of women is that they often date a man for the former reason and not the latter.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">As a result, they’ll act needy and clingy because they’re deathly afraid of being alone, even if it means lowering their standards and putting up with any guy that comes along. <o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">Acting out of FEAR is never the basis for a healthy, long-term relationship.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">Simply put, self-respect is done by placing value on yourself, and that in turn will prompt a quality man to treat you in the same manner. Otherwise, an attractive woman has no problems showing him the door and moving on with her life.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"><br /></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.meetyoursweet.com/?aff=andraldri&pg=monthlywom&id=AttTrans"><img border="0" height="47" src="http://www.meetyoursweet.com/monthly/images/banners/neutral/728.gif" width="400" /></a></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"># 2: Just say “NO” to mind games<o:p></o:p></span></b></div><div class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"><br /></span></b></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">The folly of manipulating a guy is that whatever happiness you’ll get out of toying with his mind will be SHORT-LIVED. Once you’ve dealt him your best cards and he’s given up chasing after you, then there won’t be much reason to stick around.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">So don’t bother adhering to a bunch of stupid rules. There’s plenty of harmful advice floating out there which are usually created out of specific experiences that don’t apply to everyone. You might hear that you should NEVER kiss on a first date, or that you must go to bed with him on the third one.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">Please, these so-called rules are made by bitter and jaded people who want to protect themselves from getting burned again. Following these will only result in game-playing, and that is just another word for “manipulation”.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">As I’ve just said, deception has no place in a healthy relationship, and anything based on a lie is bound to crumble in the future. That’s why it’s more important to be a balanced woman instead. That means no playing “hard to get”, nor should you present him with absolutely no challenge at all. <o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">An attractive woman is who she is partly because she knows how to strike the middle ground: she doesn’t mess with a man’s head, but neither is she easily won over.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"># 3: Get your head out of the clouds<o:p></o:p></span></b></div><div class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"><br /></span></b></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">You know, a lot of relationship problems are caused by having unrealistic standards. When you get caught up in fantasizing about IMPOSSIBLE stereotypes, you’re keeping quality men out of your life.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">That’s because NONE of them will be able to measure up to the ideal (read: ridiculously perfect) man living inside that fantasy world of yours! Seriously, you should learn to temper your expectations with a sense of practicality.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">In a parallel universe, all of the men you’ll meet have big arms, ripped abs, stunning chiseled looks, and inexhaustible wealth. You might think that meeting ALL of those qualities are the ticket to a great relationship, but it’s so much more than that.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">Ask yourself: will I be able to have a happy relationship if my man didn’t have (insert trait here)? If so, then you can either make your standards more realistic or cross out that specific item completely. If not, then keep it on your list and move on to your other standards.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">Pare down your list and stick to the essentials. In twenty years from now, will a flawless physique still be important, as opposed to emotional maturity, faithfulness, or honesty? Think about that for a while.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">You’re not living in a movie here – this is the real world you’re in. Don’t wait around for a valiant knight to come barging in and rescue you from the drudge of your daily life. <o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">You’ll have to do that for yourself. That takes us to the next irresistible trait, which is to…<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"><br /></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.meetyoursweet.com/?aff=andraldri&pg=monthlywom&id=AttTrans"><img border="0" height="48" src="http://www.meetyoursweet.com/monthly/images/banners/women/728.gif" width="400" /></a></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">#4: Derive fulfillment and satisfaction from your life, not a relationship<o:p></o:p></span></b></div><div class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"><br /></span></b></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">While a sassy woman will make room for a worthy man in her life, she’s not about to turn her schedule upside-down just to accommodate his preferences. She has the guts to go on living the way she was before they met.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">It’s very important not to lose focus on the other aspects of your life when you get into a relationship. As we’ve discussed, your life should revolve around what works best for YOU.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">Always have your priorities sorted and don’t develop the habit of dropping everything else just for him. While it’s ok to occasionally move things around for your guy, always leave time for yourself as well adequate room for personal growth.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">That’s the problem with a lot of women – once a guy steps into the picture, everything goes haywire. They forget their family and friends, slack off at work and basically drop off the face of the Earth.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">That’s not a healthy way to live your life. Rather, a relationship should enhance the quality of your life and INSPIRE you to do even better.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">Going back to what I mentioned before, whether or not you have a boyfriend at the moment shouldn’t affect the big picture. 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Some people start to fear driving their car in traffic. Others fear leaving their safe zone or simply any situation where they have responsibilities to perform.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">This state of apprehension keeps a person’s anxiety level high, leading to feelings of general anxiety.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">If you are such a person I hope to put your mind at rest. Panic attacks as well as general anxiety (even when not accompanied by panic disorder) can be eliminated in simple steps regardless of how long the anxiety has been a problem.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">I am speaking not just from my own personal experience but from having worked with thousands of people right around the world.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Here is an important observation:</span></b><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></b></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">The key difference between someone who is cured of panic attacks and those who are not is really very simple. The one who is cured is not afraid of panic attacks. I’ll try to show you how to one of these people as well.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">What if I told you the trick to ending panic attacks is to want to have one!<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">That sounds strange but let me explain.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">A simple trick to ending <a href="http://448e5yu1yxq7234moes9chev5s.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=PANICAWAY">panic attack</a>s is wanting to have one because the wanting causes an immediate diffusion of the anticipatory fear.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Can you have a panic attack in this very second?<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">No !<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">You know the saying “what you resist persists.” Well that saying applies perfectly to fear. If you resist a situation out of fear, the fear around that issue will persist.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">How do you stop resisting?</span></b><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></b></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">You move directly into the path of the <a href="http://448e5yu1yxq7234moes9chev5s.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=PANICAWAY">anxiety</a>; by doing so it cannot persist because you process the fear out through your emotions.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Try in this very moment to have a panic attack and I will bet you cannot… Yes, I know the idea of calling on a panic attack is scary at first but play with the concept and watch what happens.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">You may not realize it but you have always decided to panic. You make the choice by thinking<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">“This is beyond my control.”<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">“These scary sensations are beyond my bodies control.”<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">It may help if you imagine that having a panic attack is like standing on a cliff edge.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">The anxiety, it seems, is pushing you closer to falling over the edge. Each time you fight back using poor coping strategies the more desperate you feel.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">To be rid of the fear you must metaphorically jump. You must jump off the cliff edge and into the anxiety and fear and all the things that you fear most. How do you jump?<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">You jump by wanting to have a panic attack. You go about your day asking for a panic attack to appear. Your real safety is the fact that a panic attack will never harm you. That is medical fact.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">You are safe, -Yes, the sensations are wild and uncomfortable, but no harm will come to you.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Your body is in a heightened state but no harm will come to you.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">The jump becomes nothing more than a two inch drop! You are safe.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">You always were.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Think of all the <a href="http://448e5yu1yxq7234moes9chev5s.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=PANICAWAY">panic attacks</a> you have had to date and come out the other end. Was there any lasting physical damage to you, other than the mounting feeling of panic?<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Now you are going to approach this problem differently. You actively seek out the attack like an adventure seeker. Take the opposite approach.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">YOU bring it on!!!</span></b><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></b></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">To Learn more about Panic Away visit: <a href="http://448e5yu1yxq7234moes9chev5s.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=PANICAWAY">www.PanicAway.com</a><o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://448e5yu1yxq7234moes9chev5s.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=PANICAWAY"><img border="0" height="51" src="http://www.panicaway.com/images/banners/468x60.gif" width="400" /></a></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Here are some of the things you will learn from Panic Away…</span></b><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"></div><ul><li><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Learn how to be empowered and gain confidence by engaging a simple technique to defuse any panic attack.</span></li><li><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">The four most powerful approaches to creating an enduring anxiety buffer zone (particularly useful for those who experience GAD).</span></li><li><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Learn to avoid making the one mistake almost everyone makes during a panic attack episode.</span></li></ul><br /> <div class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Here is a small sample of how the course has helped others:</span></b></div><div class="MsoNormal"><i><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">…learned more from reading your program than I did from all the psychologists and other practitioners I had seen in the 25 years</span></i><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><i><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">I must tell you that out of all the items you can purchase regarding anxiety related products on the internet, I learned more from reading your program than I did from all the psychologists and other practitioners I had seen in the 25 years that I’ve had this condition.</span></i><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><i><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></i></div><div class="MsoNormal"><i><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">I had been on Xanax and Klonopin for about 10 years, but this December, I decided to withdraw from it thinking I didn’t need the pills anymore according to some of the programs I ordered claiming “miracle cures”. That’s when all my symptoms started again. I felt as if I had wasted the past 20 years trying to get better.That’s when I started searching the web for home based “cures”. I ordered so many programs I started to get confused from too much conflicting advice. Also, I was promised support but I am still waiting replies from some of the more expensive programs!</span></i><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><i><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></i></div><div class="MsoNormal"><i><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">You are a true gentleman, and I am going to post a very positive feedback on a website you might be familiar about called: Tapir?</span></i><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><i><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Talk to ya, Andy</span></i><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><i><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></i></div><div class="MsoNormal"><i><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">=================================</span></i><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><i><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></i></div><div class="MsoNormal"><i><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">…I DEBATED ORDERING YOUR PROGRAM BECAUSE I HAVE SPENT APPROX. $8,000 IN THE LAST 5 YEARS</span></i><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><i><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></i></div><div class="MsoNormal"><i><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">, I RAN ACROSS YOUR PROGRAM SUNDAY, FEB. 5th. I DEBATED ORDERING YOUR PROGRAM BECAUSE I HAVE SPENT APPROX. $8,000 IN THE LAST 5 YEARS OF MY LIFE TRYING EVERYTHING FROM PANIC SUPPORT CLASSES, MEDICATION, COUNSELING AND THE LIST GOES ON, ALL TO RID MYSELF OF PANIC ATTACKS. SOMETHING INSIDE ME SAID, JUST KEEP TRYING, SO I DID. AFTER 5 YEARS OF OF LIVING MY LIFE WITH THE WORLD ON MY SHOULDERS I AM EXCITED TO SAY THAT I AM NOW PANIC FREE. AFTER ONE TIME OF APPLYING YOUR ONE MOVE TECHNIQUE, I AM A NEW PERSON.</span></i><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><i><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></i></div><div class="MsoNormal"><i><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">ONE OF MY MANY FEARS THAT I DEVELOPED WAS DRIVING. AFTER READING YOUR PROGRAM AT 12.30 AT NIGHT I WROTE DOWN SOME QUICK NOTES FROM YOUR “ONE MOVE TECH.” I RAN OUT OF MY HOUSE AND DROVE TOWARD THE DARKEST SCARIEST ROAD WHERE NOBODY WAS NEAR BY.</span></i><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><i><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></i></div><div class="MsoNormal"><i><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">THIS WOULD DEFINITLY BRING ON AN FULL PANIC ATTACK, WHICH IT DID. WHILE LETTING MYSELF FEEL THE EMOTIONS RUN THROUGH ME, I DID EXACTLY WHAT YOU TOLD ME TO DO, I WAS SCARED AS HELL BUT STOOD MY GROUND. I INSTANTLY CALMED AND EVEN TRIED TO BRING THE ATTACK BACK ON, BUT COULD NOT. I LITTERALLY LAUGHED OUT LOUD AND SAT IN MY TRUCK AMAZED. AFTER ALL THIS TIME THAT WAS ALL I HAD TO DO. THE COMPLETE OPPOSIT OF EVERYTHING THAT I WAS TOLD. THIS WHOLE WEEK I HAVE DRIVEN WHERE EVER I WANTED,AT ANY TIME OF THE DAY. I AM SO GLAD I FOUND YOUR PROGRAM.</span></i><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><i><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></i></div><div class="MsoNormal"><i><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR ALL YOUR RESEARCH, TIME, AND DEDICATION SO THAT PEOPLE LIKE US CAN NOW LIVE A NORMAL AND HAPPY LIFE. JACKSON CA, AARON</span></i><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><i><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></i></div><div class="MsoNormal"><i><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">==================================</span></i><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><i><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></i></div><div class="MsoNormal"><i><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">…I prayed to God to show me what to do</span></i><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><i><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></i></div><div class="MsoNormal"><i><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">I experienced my first panic attack in July of this year and ended up going to the hospital by ambulance thinking I was having a stroke or heart attack! I have had a bunch of attacks since then. Monday morning I awoke to an immediate attack and prayed to God to show me what to do. To make a long story short, I was led to your website but was afraid it was like the other ones where they try to sell you their products. However, your introductory information really spoke to me and I decided to take a chance. I read your book and it gave me the tools I was searching for to deal with my attacks.</span></i><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><i><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></i></div><div class="MsoNormal"><i><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">I could tell immediately that you have suffered from panic attacks yourself because you spoke with authority that can only have come from having dealt with the terrors yourself. I am 42 years of age and have been noticing the psychological effects of perimenopause (one of which is panic attacks in my case). Thanks again!!</span></i><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><i><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></i></div><div class="MsoNormal"><i><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Sincerely, Cynthia</span></i><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">===================================<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">To Learn more about Panic Away visit:</span></b><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><a href="http://448e5yu1yxq7234moes9chev5s.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=PANICAWAY">www.PanicAway.com</a><o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">I encourage you to take a chance with this course. As a former sufferer I would not pretend to have a solution if I did not honestly believe it could be of great benefit to you.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Together we can get you truly back to the person you were before anxiety became an issue.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">P.S. Additional bonus- I am currently offering an opportunity to have a one to one session with me so that I can ensure you get the results you need. All I ask is that should you feel the course has been of tremendous benefit to you that I add you to a database I am currently updating of success stories.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">If you want to learn more about this course and how to get started right away visit:</span></b><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><a href="http://448e5yu1yxq7234moes9chev5s.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=PANICAWAY">www.PanicAway.com</a><o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Talk soon<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Barry McDonagh<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">All material provided in these emails are for informational or educational purposes only. No content is intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment. Consult your physician regarding the applicability of any opinions or recommendations with respect to your symptoms or medical condition.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://448e5yu1yxq7234moes9chev5s.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=PANICAWAY"><img border="0" height="51" src="http://www.panicaway.com/images/banners/B-468x60.gif" width="400" /></a></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"> </span><i>This article is brought to you by Women Love</i></div>Andraldri Hillonhttps://plus.google.com/105764401250488003798noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1734509660077091432.post-71472310548456100202012-05-19T19:41:00.002-07:002012-05-19T20:03:43.559-07:00End Anxious Thoughts In 4 Easy Steps<div style="text-align: right;"><i>This article is brought to you by Women Love</i></div>by <span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: left;">Barry McDonagh</span><br /><i><br /></i><br /><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://448e5yu1yxq7234moes9chev5s.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=PANICAWAY" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;" target="_blank"><img border="0" src="http://www.panicaway.com/images/banners/120x240.gif" /></a></div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;">After having visited my site I can almost imagine what your repetitive anxious thought might be.</div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;">Maybe it’s a fear of:</div><ul style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; list-style-type: none; text-align: left;"><li style="background-repeat: no-repeat no-repeat; font-size: 16px; line-height: 1.2em; padding: 0px 0px 0px 5px;">-a panic attack</li><li style="background-repeat: no-repeat no-repeat; font-size: 16px; line-height: 1.2em; padding: 0px 0px 0px 5px;">-never being free of general anxiety</li><li style="background-repeat: no-repeat no-repeat; font-size: 16px; line-height: 1.2em; padding: 0px 0px 0px 5px;">-a bodily sensation that worries you</li><li style="background-repeat: no-repeat no-repeat; font-size: 16px; line-height: 1.2em; padding: 0px 0px 0px 5px;">-a fear of losing control to anxiety</li></ul><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;">My name is Barry McDonagh and I have successfully taught thousands of people in over 30 different countries, how to end general anxiety and panic attacks.</div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;">Whatever your particular fear is, I want to share some tips and techniques with you over the coming days that will not only help you end these fears but also reduce your general anxiety level dramatically.</div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;">After many years of coaching people to be anxiety free, I have noticed that those who experience panic attacks or general anxiety almost always deal with the frequent occurrence of anxious thoughts.</div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;">Anxiety has a sneaky way of seeding doubt regardless of whether the fear is rational or irrational.</div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;">So what can be done for people who suffer from repetitive anxious thoughts?</div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;">To begin, lets look at how an anxious thought is powered and then I will demonstrate how to quickly eliminate the intensity of the thought.</div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;">Say for example you are going about your daily business when an anxious thought enters your mind.</div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;">Whatever the nature of the thought, the pattern that follows is usually quite predictable.</div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;">The anxious thought flashes briefly in your awareness and as it does so you immediately react with fear as you contemplate the thought. The fearful reaction you have to the thought then sends a shock-wave through your nervous system. You feel the result of that fear most intensely in your stomach (due to the amount of nerve endings located there).</div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;">Because of the intense bodily reaction to the thought you then get sucked into examining the anxious thought over and over.</div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;">The continuous fearful reaction you have to the thought, increases the intensity of the experience. The more you react, the stronger the thought rebounds again in your awareness creating more anxious shock-waves throughout your body. This is the typical cycle of anxious thoughts.</div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;">For some it feels like the anxious thoughts are hijacking their peace of mind.</div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;">Because of the reaction you are having, you may continue to spend the rest of your day thinking about the anxious thoughts you experienced.</div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;">“Why am I thinking these thoughts?” “Why can’t I shake off this eerie feeling?”</div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;">The harder you try not to think about it, the more upset you become. It is like telling someone</div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;">‘Whatever happens do not think of a pink elephant’.</div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;">Naturally enough it’s all they can think about. That’s the way our brains our wired.</div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;">So how can you eliminate these unwanted anxious thoughts?</div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;"></div><div style="font-size: 16px;"><strong>To begin with:</strong></div><ul style="font-size: 16px; list-style-type: none;"><li style="background-repeat: no-repeat no-repeat; font-size: 16px; line-height: 1.2em; padding: 0px 0px 0px 5px;">-when you start to experience anxious thoughts, it is very important not to force the thoughts away.</li></ul><div style="font-size: 16px;">Let the thoughts in. The more comfortable you can become with them, the better. These thoughts will never go away fully but what you can learn is to change your reaction to them.</div><div style="font-size: 16px;"><br /></div><div style="font-size: 16px;">By changing your reaction to the anxious thoughts you become free of them.</div><div style="font-size: 16px;">Once you establish a new way of reacting to the thoughts it does not matter if you have them or not. Your reaction is what defines the whole experience (and that applies to almost everything).</div><div style="font-size: 16px;"><br /></div><div style="font-size: 16px;">Everybody experiences fleeting thoughts that many would consider scary or crazy. The difference between most people and somebody who gets caught up in them, is that the average person sees them for exactly what they are, fleeting anxious thoughts, and casually ignores them.</div><div style="font-size: 16px;"><br /></div><div style="font-size: 16px;">The anxious person is at a disadvantage as they already have a certain level of <a class="kw" href="http://448e5yu1yxq7234moes9chev5s.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=PANICAWAY" style="color: #305aa1; text-decoration: none;">anxiety</a> in their system. The thoughts easily spark feelings of further anxiety which builds into a cycle of fear. You break the cycle by changing how you react to the fearful thought.<br /><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://448e5yu1yxq7234moes9chev5s.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=PANICAWAY" target="_blank"><img border="0" height="51" src="http://www.panicaway.com/images/banners/B-468x60.gif" width="400" /></a></div><br /><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;"><strong>Here is an example of how to approach this:</strong></div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;"><strong><br /></strong></div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;">You are enjoying the way your day is going but then all of sudden a fearful thought comes to mind.</div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;">Before you would react with anxiety to the idea and then try to force that thought out of your mind.</div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;">This time, however, say:</div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;">“That’s a fear of X. I could worry and even obsess over that but this time I’m going to do something different. I’m not going to react to it. I’m also not going to try and stop it either. I’m just going to label the thought and not react.”</div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;">Then the thought comes again with more intensity and possibly with new ‘scary’ angles you never considered. When this happens you do exactly the same. As if you were observing a cloud passing overhead, you simply</div><ul style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; list-style-type: none; text-align: left;"><li style="background-repeat: no-repeat no-repeat; font-size: 16px; line-height: 1.2em; padding: 0px 0px 0px 5px;">-Observe it,</li><li style="background-repeat: no-repeat no-repeat; font-size: 16px; line-height: 1.2em; padding: 0px 0px 0px 5px;">-Label it (fear of whatever), then</li><li style="background-repeat: no-repeat no-repeat; font-size: 16px; line-height: 1.2em; padding: 0px 0px 0px 5px;">-Watch it as it passes by with no judgment.</li></ul><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;">then</div><ul style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; list-style-type: none; text-align: left;"><li style="background-repeat: no-repeat no-repeat; font-size: 16px; line-height: 1.2em; padding: 0px 0px 0px 5px;">-Move your attention on to what you were doing.</li></ul><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;">Observe, Label, Watch, Move on</div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;">See the anxious thought for what it really is: -one of the thousands of fleeting sane and insane thoughts every one of us experiences daily.</div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;">If you are a more indoors type of person then instead of thinking of the thoughts like clouds passing in the sky, you might try imagining a large cinema screen and the anxious thoughts are projected out onto the screen in front of you. Play around with this approach. Find what works for you.</div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;"><strong>The key thing to remember is to:</strong></div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;"><strong><br /></strong></div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;">Observe, Label, Watch, Move on</div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;">By practicing this approach you gradually stop reacting with fear to the thought and you learn to treat it as nothing more than an odd peculiarity.</div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;"><strong>When you are at a stage where you are comfortable doing the above exercise and you feel you are making good progress, then try this additional step:</strong></div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;"><strong><br /></strong></div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;">Actually invite one of your more regular fearful thoughts in.</div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;">Call the fear to you, say you just want it to come close so you can observe it.</div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;">It may seem like the last thing you would wish to bring upon yourself, as you don’t particularly enjoy these thoughts but this approach can be very empowering. You are now calling the shots. You actually invited the issue in.</div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;">By doing this you are discharging the dense vibration of fear surrounding the anxious thought. That fear was sustaining itself on your resistance, -the idea that you could not handle these thoughts.</div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;">The fear quickly evaporates when you turn around and say “yes of course I can handle these thoughts.”</div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;">Fear intensifies when we pull away from it. Anxious thoughts become a mental tug of war if we struggle with them.</div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;">It is the mental struggle of pulling against the anxious thoughts that creates the inner psychological tension.</div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;"><strong>The inner tension is fueled by thoughts like:</strong></div><ul style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; list-style-type: none; text-align: left;"><li style="background-repeat: no-repeat no-repeat; font-size: 16px; line-height: 1.2em; padding: 0px 0px 0px 5px;">“I can’t handle to think about this -please go away”</li><li style="background-repeat: no-repeat no-repeat; font-size: 16px; line-height: 1.2em; padding: 0px 0px 0px 5px;">“I don’t like that thought- I want it to stop!”</li></ul><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;">Take a different stance. Invite anxious thoughts in. Willingly sit with them, label them and do your very best not to react.</div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;">Yes, it does take practice but very soon you find yourself in a unique position of control. You are no longer a victim of fearful thinking but a decision maker in what you will or will not be concerned about.</div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;">As with every technique there is always a level of practice involved in the beginning. Initially you start observing but then suddenly get anxious about the fearful thought. 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Consult your physician regarding the applicability of any opinions or recommendations with respect to your symptoms or medical condition</div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: right;"><i>This article is brought to you by Women Love</i></div>Andraldri Hillonhttps://plus.google.com/105764401250488003798noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1734509660077091432.post-88774512681228627182012-05-18T21:29:00.000-07:002012-05-18T21:29:06.646-07:00Sudden Need Of Privacy- Is Your Partner Cheating?<i>This article is brought to you by Women Love</i><br /><i><br /></i><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://aa6ebyocvvu1y33xb9uadt4tet.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=BUSTCHEATPARTNER" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;" target="_blank"><img border="0" height="200" src="http://bustacheatingpartner.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/250x250.jpg" width="200" /></a></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;">You and your spouse used to stay up all night in bed, just talking.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;">Everything was relaxed. You shared all your possessions, she would ask you to get things from her purse; you’d go through his briefcase to help him to find his day planner.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;">You spent every minute together you could. There was total trust, openness and sharing. You felt so connected.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;">So why does she jump now if you walk into the room while she’s on the phone?<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;">Why does he stay up long after you’ve gone to sleep, working on the computer?<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;">Your first worried thought is, unfortunately, probably the right one.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;">Your loved one is pulling away. There’s now a distance there, a gulf where the intimacy used to be, and you feel like you’re intruding in things that before, you used to share. He just seems to need so much privacy now.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;">The other sickening part of it is that you didn’t have a fight, and there’s nothing to explain her sudden cold shoulder – or that worrisome, distracted glow in her eyes. Nothing, that is, except the possibility you don’t want to face.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;">Is your lover seeing someone else?<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">The biggest Red Flag is change</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;">Here is a quick and partial list of some of the privacy issues that could become symptoms of an affair. Remember, you’re looking for change from past behavior:<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpFirst" style="margin-left: 32.2pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold; mso-fareast-font-family: Verdana;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><!--[endif]--><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;">He gets angry or uncomfortable if you answer his phone<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 32.2pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold; mso-fareast-font-family: Verdana;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><!--[endif]--><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;">He doesn’t want you getting anything from his wallet anymore<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 32.2pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold; mso-fareast-font-family: Verdana;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><!--[endif]--><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;">She gets nervous or jumpy if you start going through her purse<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 32.2pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold; mso-fareast-font-family: Verdana;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><!--[endif]--><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;">She shuts down her computer screen if you walk up behind her<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 32.2pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold; mso-fareast-font-family: Verdana;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><!--[endif]--><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;">She password protects her email or computer<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 32.2pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold; mso-fareast-font-family: Verdana;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><!--[endif]--><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;">He gets his own cell phone account<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 32.2pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold; mso-fareast-font-family: Verdana;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><!--[endif]--><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;">He deletes his email or chat trail, or she clears her cell phone history<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 32.2pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold; mso-fareast-font-family: Verdana;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><!--[endif]--><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;">Phone calls are taken out of the room and conversations kept low<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 32.2pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold; mso-fareast-font-family: Verdana;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><!--[endif]--><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;">Suddenly hangs up if you walk in<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 32.2pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold; mso-fareast-font-family: Verdana;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><!--[endif]--><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;">He has friends he has to see alone and activities that exclude you<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 32.2pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold; mso-fareast-font-family: Verdana;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><!--[endif]--><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;">She suddenly needs to visit her mother/sister/friend a lot, without you<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpLast" style="margin-left: 32.2pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold; mso-fareast-font-family: Verdana;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><!--[endif]--><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;">She doesn’t want you driving her places any more<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;">The main red flag, however, is probably your intuition.<o:p></o:p></span></div></div><div class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></b></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://aa6ebyocvvu1y33xb9uadt4tet.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=BUSTCHEATPARTNER" target="_blank"><img border="0" height="266" src="http://bustacheatingpartner.com/main/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/banner_336x280_static.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 19px;"><b><br /></b></span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><div class="MsoNormal"><div class="MsoNormal"><div class="MsoNormal"><br /><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;">While there are some people who really are insecure, controlling or paranoid, for the most part, if you suddenly feel like something’s wrong between you, if your internal radar is sending out alarms that make your stomach feel heavy or your heart to feel wounded, chances are that your ever-vigilant self-preservation instinct is kicking in.</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Our ‘gut’ will tell us what our brain doesn’t want to hear — even when our gut is screaming to get our attention. And that’s understandable.</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;">The same way many people will ignore signs of cancer until it’s just too obvious to dismiss, we’ll sometimes do anything (lie to ourselves, make flimsy excuses to justify our spouses’ behavior, blame ourselves, even isolate ourselves from concerned friends and family) to preserve our precious fantasy that all is well.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;">Why? Because that fantasy is our life-blood.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;">If you have to, hire a private detective or educate yourself about how to track down, trap or document a suspect cheating spouse.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;">If you talk to your friends or family they may push you to leave him, divorce her, stay for the sake of the children or any number of interfering controlling advice; listen with only half your mind.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;">Their advice may be good, but maybe not good for you. They aren’t living your life. They don’t know the right path for you.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;">A trained therapist or counselor, on the other hand, generally, won’t ‘tell you what to do’. They will, however, help you sort through your feelings and options and work out, step by step, moment by moment, your next moves.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;">And this is important, because NO MATTER what you decide, it’s your relationship and your life, and no one but you has the right to make those big decisions.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div></div></div><div class="MsoNormal"><b><a href="http://aa6ebyocvvu1y33xb9uadt4tet.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=BUSTCHEATPARTNER" target="_blank">CLICK HERE TO FIND OUT HOW TO CATCH A CHEATING PARTNER</a></b></div></div></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://aa6ebyocvvu1y33xb9uadt4tet.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=BUSTCHEATPARTNER" target="_blank"><img border="0" height="48" src="http://bustacheatingpartner.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/728x90.gif" width="400" /></a></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><br /><div style="text-align: center;"><i>This article is brought to you by Women Love</i></div>Andraldri Hillonhttps://plus.google.com/105764401250488003798noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1734509660077091432.post-52352354518790578302012-05-18T20:40:00.001-07:002012-05-18T20:40:17.021-07:00Picking Fights For No Reason- Is Your Partner Cheating?<i>This article is brought to you by Women Love</i><br /><i><br /></i><br /><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://aa6ebyocvvu1y33xb9uadt4tet.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=BUSTCHEATPARTNER" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;" target="_blank"><img border="0" height="200" src="http://bustacheatingpartner.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/250x250.jpg" width="200" /></a></div><div class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">Whether you usually get along as cozily as two peas in a pod, or tend to fight things out as a matter of course, if your spouse suddenly seems to be picking fights or is hyper-easily offended, perhaps she’s hiding something.</span></b><br /><div class="MsoNormal"><div class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><br /></span></b></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">Let’s face it: most couples squabble from time to time. But lately it seems she’s just looking for things to be unhappy about.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">Maybe he’s starting to criticize your cooking more, or she’s nit-picking chores you’ve done around the home. You feel like suddenly you just can’t do anything right.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">Maybe she’s even giving your sagging midsection an appraising (and disapproving) look, or he’s making snide comments about how you dress or how you wear your hair.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">It’s not that they seem concerned about your health or want to help you make the best impression before a job interview; they seem to just plain no longer LIKE you.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">Be alert for these other ‘red flags’ of a cheating spouse:</span></b><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><br /></span></b></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpFirst" style="margin-left: 46.35pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Verdana;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><!--[endif]--><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">Strange calls/hang ups<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 46.35pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Verdana;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><!--[endif]--><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">More/less sexual or emotional intimacy<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 46.35pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Verdana;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><!--[endif]--><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">More privacy demanded around phone use, briefcases or purses<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 46.35pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Verdana;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><!--[endif]--><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">Unexplained charges on the credit cards<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 46.35pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Verdana;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><!--[endif]--><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">Sudden preoccupation with personal appearance, hygiene or grooming<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 46.35pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Verdana;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><!--[endif]--><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">Evasiveness or defensiveness<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpLast" style="margin-left: 46.35pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Verdana;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><!--[endif]--><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">ETC<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpLast" style="margin-left: 46.35pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">You get the idea.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">Perhaps your intuition is already telling you what you don’t want to hear; your lover may be having an affair.<o:p></o:p></span></div></div></div><div class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></b></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://aa6ebyocvvu1y33xb9uadt4tet.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=BUSTCHEATPARTNER" target="_blank"><img border="0" height="266" src="http://bustacheatingpartner.com/main/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/banner_336x280_static.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><div class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></b></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /><div class="MsoNormal"><br /><div class="MsoNormal"><br /><div class="MsoNormal"><br /><div class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">Why would infidelity lead your partner to be super-critical or edgy?</span></b><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><br /></span></b></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpFirst" style="margin-left: 46.35pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Verdana;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><!--[endif]--><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">Guilt.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 46.35pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Verdana;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><!--[endif]--><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">Misdirection (diversion)<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 46.35pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Verdana;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><!--[endif]--><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">Power<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 46.35pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Verdana;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><!--[endif]--><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">A growing dissatisfaction with your relationship<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpLast" style="margin-left: 46.35pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Verdana;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><!--[endif]--><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">And, frankly, the sexual thrill of cruelty<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpLast" style="margin-left: 46.35pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">The most likely scenario is that your wayward spouse is simply reacting from deep guilt, and trying in her own way to put the blame on you, making YOU the ‘bad guy’ to justify her behavior.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">One thing you won’t usually read is that sometimes, depending on your history as a couple and the cheater’s personality, the sheer sexual thrill of hurting the one you’re stepping out on can be a real rush.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">So as dark as is may be, the fact that he or she can ‘kick you when you’re down’ may dramatically raise his level of sexual enjoyment, enable and escalate the affair, and bring out his or her latent tendencies for cruelty.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">Worse is when your cheating partner then runs off to his mistress or, having found an excuse to drive off in a huff, she storms out to visit her lover, and they have especially hot sex afterwards.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">That can become a sexual addiction even beyond the emotional component of the affair itself.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">This is a very tricky slope to navigate.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">What can you do to?</span></b><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><br /></span></b></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">While, what you probably want are the right ‘magic words’ and advice to either make everything better or address the situation yourself, your smartest (and kindest) move might be to turn first to your professional counselor or therapist to help you sort through your suspicions, feelings and next steps.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">They’ll help you look at things from different angles and perhaps more objectively (after all, it IS possible your spouse is innocent of any wrongdoing), and plot your course of action.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">Most of all, take care of yourself and don’t beat yourself up with feelings of inadequacy or self-blame. Be kind to yourself and work on a healing solution with the help of your church or therapist.<o:p></o:p></span></div></div></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span><br /><b><a href="http://aa6ebyocvvu1y33xb9uadt4tet.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=BUSTCHEATPARTNER" target="_blank">CLICK HERE TO FIND OUT HOW TO CATCH A CHEATING PARTNER</a></b></div></div></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://aa6ebyocvvu1y33xb9uadt4tet.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=BUSTCHEATPARTNER" target="_blank"><img border="0" height="48" src="http://bustacheatingpartner.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/728x90.gif" width="400" /></a></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><br /><div style="text-align: center;"><i>This article is brought to you by Women Love</i></div>Andraldri Hillonhttps://plus.google.com/105764401250488003798noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1734509660077091432.post-81297774236359537302012-05-18T03:10:00.000-07:002012-05-18T05:48:58.606-07:00Can You Trust Your Gut Feeling That Your Partner Is Cheating?<i>This article is brought to you by Women Love</i><br /><i><br /></i><br /><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://aa6ebyocvvu1y33xb9uadt4tet.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=BUSTCHEATPARTNER" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;" target="_blank"><img border="0" height="200" src="http://bustacheatingpartner.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/250x250.jpg" width="200" /></a></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /><div class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">It’s far too easy for most of us to dismiss our internal radar warning system, and make excuses, over-rationalize or ignore evidence that our subconscious is screaming out for us to pay attention to.<o:p></o:p></span></b></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">You may have no concrete proof, but somehow you just ‘know’ that there’s something going on between your wife and that new salesman at the office.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">“He denies it, but he sure seems to be making an awful lot of little shopping trips at odd hours, or his short errands end up stretching into hours.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">How many times can his car give him trouble without him getting it fixed once and for all?”<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">“It seems like our friends or co-workers are acting funny when I visit her at the office, but I just can’t put my finger on what’s wrong.”<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Should I be worried?<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Actually, yes. Statistics from private investigators show that about 80% of women and about 40% of men are right when their ‘gut’ tells them that their partner is having an affair.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Those are pretty sobering statistics, and underscore the need to really ‘tune in’ to our innermost guidance system when it comes to red flags.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Most unfaithful spouses actually give off a bounty of unconscious clues about the state of their involvement with their marriage — or with someone else. </span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">They can’t help it.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Our bodies are automatic lie-detectors as well as lie-projectors.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Physiologically, a liar’s eyes give him away by inappropriate dilation response; her skin flushes or grows hot or cold; hands tremble or the mouth dries out.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">There may be many more signals we don’t know about yet – but our intuition does.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Your intuition can pick up evasive words, looks, body posture and voice quality. It can spot nervousness or deception a mile away.<o:p></o:p></span></div></div><div class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></b></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://aa6ebyocvvu1y33xb9uadt4tet.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=BUSTCHEATPARTNER" target="_blank"><img border="0" height="266" src="http://bustacheatingpartner.com/main/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/banner_336x280_static.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><div class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></b></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /><div class="MsoNormal"><br /><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">The big problem is, unlike our animal friends, we tend to talk ourselves out of listening to these innate warning signals.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">We make excuses, rationalize, justify behavior, and take inappropriate blame or guilt upon ourselves in order to exonerate the one we love.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">And we can do this subconsciously, in the blink of an eye, almost as fast as the warning comes in we manage to dilute, refute or edit it so it’s less threatening to our sensibilities.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">You can look at all the obvious red flags:<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpFirst" style="mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"></div><ul><li><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%; text-indent: -18pt;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%; text-indent: -18pt;">Increased emotional distance</span></li><li><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%; text-indent: -18pt;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%; text-indent: -18pt;">Evasiveness</span></li><li><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%; text-indent: -18pt;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%; text-indent: -18pt;">Secrecy</span></li><li><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%; text-indent: -18pt;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%; text-indent: -18pt;">Strange phone behavior</span></li><li><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%; text-indent: -18pt;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%; text-indent: -18pt;">Odd credit card charges</span></li><li><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%; text-indent: -18pt;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%; text-indent: -18pt;">Picking fights</span></li><li><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%; text-indent: -18pt;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%; text-indent: -18pt;">More Sex</span></li><li><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%; text-indent: -18pt;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%; text-indent: -18pt;">Less Sex</span></li><li><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%; text-indent: -18pt;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%; text-indent: -18pt;">New interest in personal appearance</span></li><li><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%; text-indent: -18pt;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%; text-indent: -18pt;">ETC</span></li></ul><br /><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">You can even see all these signs and still find ways to tell yourself everything is fine and you’re just being paranoid. In fact, on some level you are desperate searching for anything you can find to prove there’s nothing going on and it’s all you.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">If you’re a naturally suspicious person, or insecure in general, there could be something to this.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Check with a trusted friend of therapist. You could have childhood issues with trust that are coloring events in your adult life.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">But after you’ve spent some time evaluating your own self, it’s time to check in with your gut and truly give it a listen. It’s smarter than you think it is.<o:p></o:p></span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span><br /><b><a href="http://aa6ebyocvvu1y33xb9uadt4tet.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=BUSTCHEATPARTNER" target="_blank">CLICK HERE TO FIND OUT HOW TO CATCH A CHEATING PARTNER</a></b></div></div></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://aa6ebyocvvu1y33xb9uadt4tet.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=BUSTCHEATPARTNER" target="_blank"><img border="0" height="48" src="http://bustacheatingpartner.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/728x90.gif" width="400" /></a></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><br /><div style="text-align: center;"><i>This article is brought to you by Women Love</i></div>Andraldri Hillonhttps://plus.google.com/105764401250488003798noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1734509660077091432.post-27517461964256742012012-05-18T02:44:00.000-07:002012-05-18T05:48:33.814-07:00Why People Cheat In Relationships?<i>This article is brought to you by Women Love</i><br /><i><br /></i><br /><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://aa6ebyocvvu1y33xb9uadt4tet.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=BUSTCHEATPARTNER" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;" target="_blank"><img border="0" height="200" src="http://bustacheatingpartner.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/250x250.jpg" width="200" /></a></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">You might have caught your partner red-handed, or perhaps you merely suspect it.</span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span><br /><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Even if not, it makes sense, with the proliferation of cyber-sex and affairs among both men and women, that it will cross your mind to wonder what drives a spouse to cheat in the first place?<o:p></o:p></span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Maybe nothing. That is, nothing that you’ve done wrong. Sometimes things really do ‘just happen’.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">We are all, in the end, biological creatures with physical needs and weaknesses.<o:p></o:p></span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">In the midst of the heat of an unexpectedly delicious moment at the office party with that guy you’ve had a little crush on, or that reassuring hug you gave to the sexy neighbor when her cat got run over, things felt just a little too good.<o:p></o:p></span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Like the first bite of a succulent steak, you can’t help craving it, if even just for a moment. Unfortunately sometimes that means you go where you shouldn’t and before you know it, you’ve crossed the line.<o:p></o:p></span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">If it’s really that innocent, your relationship can probably survive using disclosure, apology and conscious intent.<o:p></o:p></span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">BUT<o:p></o:p></span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">But what if the indiscretion is ongoing? What if your spouse can’t or won’t stop seeing the ‘other’, or even seems to ‘get off’ ongoing behind your back?<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">That’s the problem.<o:p></o:p></span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">People often cheat because it just plain feels good.<o:p></o:p></span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">However, a solid friendship, trusting relationship and the security and partnership of marriage feels good, too, so why do so many people risk all that for a roll in the hay or a fling?<o:p></o:p></span></div></div><div class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></b></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://aa6ebyocvvu1y33xb9uadt4tet.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=BUSTCHEATPARTNER" target="_blank"><img border="0" height="266" src="http://bustacheatingpartner.com/main/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/banner_336x280_static.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><div class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></b></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /><div class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Here are some reasons why people cheat on their partners:</span></b><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><o:p></o:p></span><br /><b><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></b></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpFirst" style="margin-left: 54.0pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">You fight too often<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 54.0pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Your sexual compatibility has eroded and your mate isn’t satisfied<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 54.0pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Gradual erosion of trust<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 54.0pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Over-familiarity (boredom)<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 54.0pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Experimentation (Maybe she doesn’t think you’d approve of the fantasy she’s dying to live out in bed – so she tries it with someone who she feels won’t judge her)<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 54.0pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">You’ve been too busy for intimacy<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 54.0pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Your mate is no longer attracted to you that way (have you let yourself go? Be honest. You have limits too when it comes to physical appearance, hygiene, etc)<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 54.0pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Has petty bickering and nagging drained all the joy, humor and affection from our relationship?<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 54.0pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">There is a grudge there that needs to be addressed<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 54.0pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">She feels taken for granted<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 54.0pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">He feels unappreciated<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 54.0pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">There’s a basic incompatibility in your relationship<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 54.0pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">She feels like she’s getting old and less pretty and wants to feel young and desirable again<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 54.0pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">He feels older and less manly and wants to feel that testosterone rush again to make him feel good about himself<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 54.0pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">He’s just a chronic adulterer<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 54.0pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">She doesn’t have the relationship skills to maintain or work through a long-term relationship<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 54.0pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">He has deep sexual kinks (bi curious, S&M etc) that he feels are inappropriate to live out with his wife<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpLast" style="margin-left: 54.0pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">She needs to feel the power and flush of strong romantic love again. She needs that reassurance and sense of being cherished and adored.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Can your marriage recover from an affair? Yes, it’s possible, even if your spouse has feelings for the object of her obsession.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">But be aware that it won’t be simple or quick. Both of you will have to work hard and probably involve a therapist to help guide you.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">But it is possible.<o:p></o:p></span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span><br /><b><a href="http://aa6ebyocvvu1y33xb9uadt4tet.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=BUSTCHEATPARTNER" target="_blank">CLICK HERE TO FIND OUT HOW TO CATCH A CHEATING PARTNER</a></b></div></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://aa6ebyocvvu1y33xb9uadt4tet.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=BUSTCHEATPARTNER" target="_blank"><img border="0" height="48" src="http://bustacheatingpartner.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/728x90.gif" width="400" /></a></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><br /><div style="text-align: center;"><i>This article is brought to you by Women Love</i></div>Andraldri Hillonhttps://plus.google.com/105764401250488003798noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1734509660077091432.post-58974407838217578122012-05-18T02:31:00.000-07:002012-05-18T05:48:04.596-07:00Frequent Business Trips- Is Your Partner Cheating?<i>This article is brought to you by Women Love</i><br /><i><br /></i><br /><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://aa6ebyocvvu1y33xb9uadt4tet.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=BUSTCHEATPARTNER" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;" target="_blank"><img border="0" height="200" src="http://bustacheatingpartner.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/125x125.jpg" width="200" /></a></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Where does my insecurity end . . . and her infidelity begin?<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">“She used to love it when I drove her to the airport, but lately she seems perfectly happy and excited to head out of town on her own, renting a cab and hauling all her own luggage.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Why would her beautiful eyes have that happy sparkle in them when she’s leaving without me?”<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">“Usually my husband and I took advantage of his company’s out of town assignments to share some travel time together.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">What could be sweeter or more thrilling than sleeping in a strange hotel room together and renewing the spark?<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">But the last two trips he seemed distracted and gave excuses as to why I couldn’t go this time . . . and even though they made intellectual sense, my intuition just KNEW there was a lot he wasn’t telling me.”<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Does any of this feel familiar to you?<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">It can leave us feeling very insecure and hurt when we sense our loved one is rejecting us, especially when the possibility of another man or woman enters the equation.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">But how can we find out, once and for all, if he or she really is cheating, or if it’s all perfectly innocent – and, do we even really want to know the truth?<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Some signs of a cheating spouse</span></b><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpFirst" style="margin-left: 54.0pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Evasiveness when you question him about his plans <o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 54.0pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Business/travel receipts that don’t add up<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 54.0pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Change in her usual behavior – more sex/no sex, reluctance to talk/ talking too much, etc.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 54.0pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Protective of luggage/briefcase/cell phone etc. – Doesn’t want you looking through them<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 54.0pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Travelling more frequently/delays returning<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpLast" style="margin-left: 54.0pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">•<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Nervous/defensive or eager body language as trip time approaches<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpLast" style="margin-left: 54.0pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Add these to the general signs of cheating such as; emotional distance, withdrawal of physical affection, suspicious phone activity, suspicious credit card charges, secrecy, picking fights, unexplained new interest in appearance or new hobbies — the list goes on and on but you get the idea.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">The sad fact is that you can check off all the lists and take all the quizzes, but what it really comes down to is this; if one partner suspects the other of infidelity, they’re usually right.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Does that mean the end of your relationship?</span></b><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></b></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://aa6ebyocvvu1y33xb9uadt4tet.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=BUSTCHEATPARTNER" target="_blank"><img border="0" height="266" src="http://bustacheatingpartner.com/main/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/banner_336x280_static.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><div class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></b></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Not necessarily.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">You’re hurting deeply right now, emotions are high and you feel that fight-or-flight-response, but don’t start acting/reacting just for the sake of motion.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Some marriages manage to recover from affairs. It all depends on what both parties end up wanting, so it’s worth thinking beyond your knee-jerk reaction.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">There are all sorts of options available to you if you decide to pursue them to try to catch your cheating spouse, including hiring a private investigator.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Before you jump into anything like that though – even before trying to ‘set her up’ to catch her yourself – take a little time to seriously consider your options in EVERY eventuality.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">That is, IF she’s innocent, IF he’s guilty, and if so, what do you really want to do about it?<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Most self-help columns and even many of your friends would encourage you to find out, take action, confront, gather evidence for a divorce, leave him, sue her . . . in other words, ‘fix’ or end the relationship.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Know, however, that there are untold millions of people who decide — either actively or passively – to endure a cheating spouse because it’s more important to them to keep the man or woman they love, maintain the lifestyle, protect the children or even keep up appearances.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">While there are certainly circumstances to the contrary (such as abuse or other danger), who’s to say that staying in your relationship is the wrong choice?<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">You won’t usually read this, but many people have ended up worse-off for the rest of their lives after a divorce than if they’d stayed.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Even if just for financial reasons, (which often means simple survival), it might be foolish to throw your marriage away over an affair.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">What you end up deciding to do is your decision and yours alone. Just try to keep a level head and take each step carefully, preferably with the help of a trusted therapist or counselor.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Whichever way you end up going, seeking reconciliation or separation, don’t go it alone.<o:p></o:p></span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span><br /><br /><div class="MsoNormal"><b><a href="http://aa6ebyocvvu1y33xb9uadt4tet.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=BUSTCHEATPARTNER" target="_blank">CLICK HERE TO FIND OUT HOW TO CATCH A CHEATING PARTNER</a></b></div></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://aa6ebyocvvu1y33xb9uadt4tet.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=BUSTCHEATPARTNER" target="_blank"><img border="0" height="48" src="http://bustacheatingpartner.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/728x90.gif" width="400" /></a></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><br /><div style="text-align: center;"><i>This article is brought to you by Women Love</i></div>Andraldri Hillonhttps://plus.google.com/105764401250488003798noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1734509660077091432.post-49281480595906500802012-05-17T23:24:00.001-07:002012-05-17T23:24:38.258-07:00Body Language Cues Of A Cheating Partner<i>This article is brought to you by Women Love</i><br /><i><br /></i><br /><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">How to spots the clues and signs that should tell you that your partner is definitely cheating on you by studying your partner’s body language.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Clues that point to the fact that your partner is cheating on you is not limited to obvious signs such as the missing wedding ring, the lipstick marks, the different perfume, etc. You don’t even have to stalk your partner all over town to “investigate” his or her extramarital affairs. The clues are right in front of you and you don’t have to dig too deep to see them.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">A person’s body language is an often-ignored pool of “evidence” where infidelity is concerned. How your partner reacts to certain questions, how your partner’s hands feel when you hold them, how your partner’s eyes move – these are just some of the most telling signs in a cheating spouse. But how do you identify them? You’ll find out here…<o:p></o:p></span></div><br /><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; line-height: 19px;">You can download this ebook for </span><b style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; line-height: 19px;">FREE</b><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; line-height: 19px;">. Just click on the picture below and you'll come to ziddu.com. All you need just click the Download sign.</span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; line-height: 19px;"><br /></span><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.ziddu.com/download/19414929/BodyLanguageCuesOfACheatingPartner_R.pdf.html" target="_blank"><img border="0" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-K-S42mXRoH4/T7Xch8xNNqI/AAAAAAAACGU/HYhmVoD-oxI/s320/bodylanguage.jpg" /></a></div><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; line-height: 19px;"><br /></span><br /><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Or perhaps you can directly want to know how to bust your cheating partner safely and easily. Click to visit <a href="http://aa6ebyocvvu1y33xb9uadt4tet.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=BUSTCHEATPARTNER">http://bustacheatingpartner.com</a>.</span><br /><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://aa6ebyocvvu1y33xb9uadt4tet.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=BUSTCHEATPARTNER" target="_blank"><img border="0" src="http://bustacheatingpartner.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/250x250.jpg" /></a></div><br /></div><br /><div style="text-align: right;"><i>This article is brought to you by Women Love</i></div>Andraldri Hillonhttps://plus.google.com/105764401250488003798noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1734509660077091432.post-56340362957508931482012-05-17T23:05:00.000-07:002012-05-17T23:16:27.726-07:00Signs of a Cheating Partner<i>This article is brought to you by Women Love</i><br /><i><br /></i><br /><br /><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">How to spots the clues and signs that should tell you that your partner is definitely cheating on you.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Infidelity is becoming more and more rampant and it doesn’t help that technology has made it so much easier to get away with cheating. Tolerant as our society may be, it doesn’t change the fact that when your partner cheats on you, the pain is so much deeper than you imagine you would be ever capable of handling. After all, infidelity is the ultimate form of betrayal.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">So OK, you’re here because you felt a slight twinge in your gut. You’d hate to think the worst of your partner but you feel that the clues are there. How do you know for certain? How do you separate real clues from those that are products of an overactive imagination and paranoia? Can you really say that “yes, my partner is cheating on me”?<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Well, you’re about to find out…<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">You can download this ebook for <b>FREE</b>. Just click on the picture below and you'll come to ziddu.com. All you need just click the Download sign.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.ziddu.com/download/19414832/SignsOfACheatingPartner_R.pdf.html" target="_blank"><img border="0" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-cjkuOobqrZY/T7XccnO9MiI/AAAAAAAACGM/8nyEE5OuVnY/s320/signs.jpg" /></a></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Or perhaps you can directly want to know how to bust your cheating partner safely and easily. Click to visit <a href="http://aa6ebyocvvu1y33xb9uadt4tet.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=BUSTCHEATPARTNER">http://bustacheatingpartner.com</a>.</span><br /><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://aa6ebyocvvu1y33xb9uadt4tet.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=BUSTCHEATPARTNER" target="_blank"><img border="0" src="http://bustacheatingpartner.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/250x250.jpg" /></a></div><br /></div><br /><div style="text-align: right;"><i>This article is brought to you by Women Love</i></div>Andraldri Hillonhttps://plus.google.com/105764401250488003798noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1734509660077091432.post-82605903193901425782012-05-17T20:49:00.000-07:002012-05-17T21:04:42.511-07:00Some Testimonies about Bust Liars Method<i>This article is brought to you by Women Love</i><br /><i><br /></i><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em; text-align: left;"><a href="http://fdc167w0s1qy545xyn8kw8-ebh.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=BUSTLIARS" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;" target="_blank"><img border="0" height="200" src="http://bustliars.com/affiliates_files/image003.gif" width="139" /></a><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Mark Adams (The Author of Bust Liars) said: "<span style="font-size: 16px;">Today you have an opportunity to finally know for sure if that person is lying to you. You obviously think they are and it will ruin your relationship unless you find out for sure". </span></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 17px;">Let's find out what people say about this Bust liars Guide.</span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: 16px;"><br /></span></span></div><br /><i><br /></i><br /><i><br /></i><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span></div><div align="center" class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; text-align: center;"><b><span style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 16pt;">“My boss was lying right to my face”</span></b><o:p></o:p></div><div align="center" class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in;">Mark,</div><div style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in;">Hi. I got a copy of your guide not too long ago because I thought it would be fun to be able to tell if people were lying.</div><div style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in;"><br /></div><div style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in;">Man did it work. I started picking up on little lies from people throughout the day. My biggest surprise is when I asked my boss a question about future pay raises. Well…My boss told me a bunch of b.s. I mean I can’t believe my boss was lying right to my face.</div><div style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in;"><br /></div><div style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in;">I later applied some of the techniques in getting the truth and he literally told me everything in like 10 minutes.</div><div style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in;"><br /></div><div style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in;">This goes into my top 5 cool things I have learned to do.</div><div style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in;"><br /></div><div style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in;"><b><span style="font-size: 14pt;">David M.<o:p></o:p></span></b></div><div style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in;"><st1:place w:st="on"><b><span style="font-size: 14pt;">Chalfant, <st1:state w:st="on">PA</st1:state></span></b></st1:place></div><div style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in;"><st1:place w:st="on"><b><span style="font-size: 14pt;"><st1:state w:st="on"><br /></st1:state></span></b></st1:place></div><div style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in;"><st1:place w:st="on"></st1:place></div><div align="center" class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; text-align: center;"><b><span style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 16pt;">“She wasn’t lying………my friend was”</span></b><o:p></o:p></div><div align="center" class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; text-align: center;"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt;">I thought my daughter was lying to me so I grabbed a copy of your guide. I was pleasantly surprised that she wasn’t lying to me but shocked to find out that my friend was.</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt;"><br /></div><div style="margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in;">He had actually been telling me lots of lies. The first one I caught him in was insignificant. The second one, however, involved him trying to borrow money.</div><div style="margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in;"><br /></div><div style="margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in;">I am pretty sure we won’t be friends anymore but I don’t need those types of friends. I want to teach my kids that lying is not the way to go and liars do not make good friends.</div><div style="margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in;"><br /></div><div style="margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in;">Thanks man.</div><div style="margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in;"><b><span style="font-size: 14pt;">Richard Gibson<o:p></o:p></span></b></div><div style="margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in;"><b><span style="font-size: 14pt;">Madeira Beach, Fl</span></b></div><div style="margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in;"><b><span style="font-size: 14pt;"><br /></span></b></div><div style="margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in;"></div><div align="center" class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; text-align: center;"><b><span style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 16pt;">“It was almost funny at how easy it was…”</span></b><o:p></o:p></div><div align="center" class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; text-align: center;"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt;">Mark,</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt;">Hi. My name is Kasey and I recently got your bust liars guide. My boyfriend kept telling me things that just didn’t make sense. Every time I asked him about it, he just made me think it was in my head.</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt;"><br /></div><div style="margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in;">I decided I needed to know for sure and that is when I got your guide. After reading the guide, I began to apply the techniques. It was almost funny at how easy it was to figure out that he was lying.</div><div style="margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in;"><br /></div><div style="margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in;">Within 3 days, he had admitted that he was lying and told me the truth. He has no idea that I got him to do it. I think we have a chance together now but our relationship would’ve surely been over soon had it continued.</div><div style="margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in;"><br /></div><div style="margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in;"><b><span style="font-size: 14pt;">Kasey Tolliver<o:p></o:p></span></b></div><div style="margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in;"><b><span style="font-size: 14pt;">Hager, <st1:state w:st="on"><st1:place w:st="on">Oregon</st1:place></st1:state></span></b></div><div style="margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in;"><b><span style="font-size: 14pt;"><st1:state w:st="on"><st1:place w:st="on"><br /></st1:place></st1:state></span></b></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://fdc167w0s1qy545xyn8kw8-ebh.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=BUSTLIARS" target="_blank"><img border="0" height="51" src="http://bustliars.com/affiliates_files/image004.gif" width="400" /></a></div><div style="margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in;"><span style="font-size: 20px;"><b><br /></b></span></div><div style="text-align: right;"><i>This article is brought to you by Women Love</i></div>Andraldri Hillonhttps://plus.google.com/105764401250488003798noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1734509660077091432.post-4501827968000319432012-05-17T20:18:00.003-07:002012-05-17T20:18:52.692-07:00Do You Want To Know If Someone is Lying To You? <b><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">If you are interested in learning exactly how to know when someone is lying to you and how to get them to tell you the truth, then this is the perfect resource for you!</span></b><br /><b><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></b><br /><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">According to some experts, 70% of lies are never discovered. Of the 30% that are, over half of them are only partially uncovered.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">If you knew how <i><u>easy and effective</u></i> it was to know when someone was lying, you would be amazed. A lot of liars can be busted in less than 60 seconds. You would also be shocked at how frequently you are being lied to.<o:p></o:p></span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://fdc167w0s1qy545xyn8kw8-ebh.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=BUSTLIARS" target="_blank"><img border="0" src="http://bustliars.com/affiliates_files/image007.gif" /></a></div><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Mark Adams, known as Human Lie Detector, has put together an easy to read guide, <i>Bust Liars</i>, which details <b>every method </b>that he have used and developed over the past 30 years. These methods are used everyday all around the world by professionals in the lie detecting business.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">These same methods are used by law enforcement agencies, loss prevention managers and anyone else that is involved in lie detecting all over the world.<o:p></o:p></span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Until now, <b>these methods have been kept secret </b>because you can actually become a better liar by reading this guide which makes their job tougher. </span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">However, Mark has decided to break the rules and make 100% of the methods available to you. <a href="http://fdc167w0s1qy545xyn8kw8-ebh.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=BUSTLIARS" target="_blank">Click here to learn more</a>.<o:p></o:p></span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://fdc167w0s1qy545xyn8kw8-ebh.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=BUSTLIARS" target="_blank"><img border="0" height="80" src="http://bustliars.com/affiliates_files/image008.gif" width="400" /></a></div><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></div>Andraldri Hillonhttps://plus.google.com/105764401250488003798noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1734509660077091432.post-90128680502783978772012-05-10T01:54:00.003-07:002012-05-10T01:54:57.246-07:00I Want Him BackWhat to Do to Make Your Ex Boyfriend Come Back<br /><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://9bb9bxza0zoyu6c81kub4rxpcf.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=EXRECSYSWOMENLOVE" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;" target="_blank"><img border="0" height="166" src="http://myap.superaffiliatecircle.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/JBU9_336x280.jpg" width="200" /></a></div> If you’re wondering “I want him back but what can I do to get him back?” then you’ve come to the right place. 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